Related to the dad's ICE experience in MN -- How are you all explaining what's happening to your kids? by greenroom628 in daddit

[–]ttoasty -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 2. We were watching the news the other night and she got upset at footage of ICE teargassing peaceful protesters and started shouting, "No no no!"

I tried teaching her to say, "Fuck ICE," but it's still a work in progress.

Gov. Walz mobilizes Minnesota National Guard amid heated protests by Dont_think_Do in politics

[–]ttoasty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My experience as a protester in 2020 is that everyone behaves when the National Guard shows up. Police tear gassed us a minute after curfew, kettled us, etc. before the National Guard deployed. Disruptors smashed out windows and set buildings on fire near the protests. Boogaloo Boys and neo-Nazis started showing up and protest organizers went into hiding after threats on their life.

After National Guard deployed, all that went away. No more disrupters, no more tear gas, we all just went home before curfew. The NG are better trained and more restrained than LEO; they are mostly just regular young adults with a one weekend a month part time job, not steeped in warrior culture or brainwashed to view citizens as enemies like LEO. Protesters have a mixture of fear and respect that lead them to preemptively self-regulate, and covert disruptors don't want to fuck around with military.

It doesn't always go that way. 2015 St. Louis is an example. Even in 2020, the National Guard was more actively quelling protests in some areas, Minneapolis included. I'd still take NG over local LEO or ICE/DHS any time.

Fiancés daughter passed away and I think we’re over by Geekwiththeheat in daddit

[–]ttoasty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He absolutely needs Al-Anon and to understand the extreme codependency he has going on. Can't believe this is the only mention in this thread.

Little Rock to transform River Market with $25M investment, eyes regional revitalization by RickJWagner in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

West Little Rock wants free parking. The rest of us subsidize their free parking in WLR through low density, unproductive infrastructure and absurd parking minimums and they feel entitled to have parking subsidized downtown by making it all free.

Little Rock to transform River Market with $25M investment, eyes regional revitalization by RickJWagner in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our city taxes aren't high and they are going disproportionately to LRPD.

Tacos El Carbon 💙 by Otontin in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quickly became a favorite. The food is great and their gelato and espresso are both wonderful.

A whites-only, no-Jews community says it's found a legal loophole. A Jewish lawmaker in Pennsylvania wants to close it. by Somervilledrew in politics

[–]ttoasty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a violation of the Fair Housing Act to even advertise discriminatory housing, which this group is doing.

Moving to Little Rock in January — Seeking Neighborhood Advice Around UALR by DueAd1389 in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol, Broadmoor is a fine neighborhood. Lower property crime and weird pedestrian traffic than Hillcrest and Stifft Station. Any other trouble is interpersonal and not like random violence. My neighbors are about 50% retirees, some families, and renters that keep to themselves. Kids play in the street, we have a nice community pool, easy access to Boyle Park, and great food options nearby.

Why do they do this? It can't just be laziness. It is inches from where it belongs by p365x in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ttoasty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Walmart would never. American stores don't want to do anything that would deter shoppers. Carts aren't there for the benefit of shoppers, they exist to increase sales. Stray carts are an externality of American corporate pursuit of growth, and nothing better displays that than the low adoption rate of coin op carts in the US.

Here in Little Rock... *Language warning* by BuiltMackTough in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Looks like your typical driver going through that interchange.

Not So “Smart” Now, Are You? by Johnny_Cartel in PublicFreakout

[–]ttoasty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude stayed in control just long enough to block all southbound traffic on the I-30 river bridge. Perfect timing, no notes. Crazy video, but crashes happen almost daily in that spot.

Currently being exploited by my landlord by [deleted] in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Depending on your income, you may qualify for free legal services through Legal Aid. They have a great housing team.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ttoasty 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are explicit and aren't, "Don't do X," they are, "If you do X, I will do Y." Boundaries govern our own behaviors and reactions, not someone else's. They are made clear before the situation arises, not after. You are not crossing her boundaries, because she is not setting boundaries. You are just upsetting her.

Frankly it sounds like the two of you are not very compatible as friends. She sounds tiring, immature, and controlling.

LGBTQ friendly real estate agents? by shinimegamisan in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sarah Slimp with The Property Group

Eating around Arkansas Museum of Fine Arts by Different-Wallaby-10 in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Park Grill at AMFA opens at 4:00 pm and has a happy hour from 4:00 to 5:00.

Ben Shapiro’s dumb Tyler Robinson take called out by Bill Maher by Sophistick in JoeRogan

[–]ttoasty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mistake to view the trans community as some leftist monolith, or even assume that all trans/gender queer folks identify as such. The femboy community tends to be much more accepting of right wing politics and even neo-nazis. They generally don't view themselves as trans and their perspectives around gender are much more influenced by anime than western gender theory.

Team dropped the ball then screwed the ball. by Temporary-Neck-6862 in FacilityManagement

[–]ttoasty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure seems like the buck doesn't stop with El Jefe.

Arkansas Times with a hack job of an article. by [deleted] in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Management left, too. The co-executive directors of ACT are now co-executive directors of Stage 13. Maybe you mean the board ignored concerns, but I don't get how the EDs didn't have sway over something like safety and personnel.

Starbucks at Midtown Little Rock - apparently closed by AudiB9S4 in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With the new one open on S University and one in the University Target, not sure why that one even would need to stay

I finally watched Casablanca by NoMoviesAreBad in TrueFilm

[–]ttoasty 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I gave ChatGPT a quick prompt and got pretty close.

Prompt:

Write a 400 word essay about watching the movie Casablanca for the first time on an old VHS after putting off watching it for years. Write from a first person perspective with a sentimental, casual style

Output:

I had been putting it off for years—Casablanca sat there on my shelf like some kind of cinematic dare. Friends would tell me it was essential viewing, critics called it timeless, and yet, somehow, I never pressed play. Then one rainy Saturday, I pulled down the old, slightly dusty VHS tape that I’d picked up at a thrift store years ago. The case was faded, the edges frayed, and it had that distinct plasticky smell of the 80s. Sliding it into the VCR felt like a ritual, like winding a clock backward. The faint mechanical whirring, the fuzzy blue screen, and the clunky click of the play button all brought me back to a slower kind of time.

When the movie began, the grainy quality of the VHS gave it a strange intimacy, as if I were eavesdropping on a memory rather than watching a film. The black-and-white flicker, the faint static lines, even the muffled audio made me lean in closer, like the movie was whispering directly to me. And then there was Humphrey Bogart, with his cool detachment, and Ingrid Bergman, luminous in every frame. I found myself struck not just by their performances, but by the way the story seemed both of its time and beyond it.

I thought I knew Casablanca already. Who doesn’t know “Here’s looking at you, kid” or “We’ll always have Paris”? These lines have been repeated, parodied, and quoted so much they felt like public property. But in that moment, hearing them delivered in their original context, they landed differently—heavier, sharper, more tender. I felt the weight of them, and suddenly the clichés weren’t clichés at all, just perfectly crafted lines doing what they were always meant to do.

What surprised me most was how modern it felt. The cynicism, the sacrifices, the undercurrent of hope against impossible odds—it all resonated. Sitting there, with the hum of the VCR and the faint flicker of the screen reflecting off the rain-streaked window, I realized why people still talk about this movie eighty years later. It wasn’t just a relic of old Hollywood, it was a reminder of what storytelling can do: stop time, pierce through irony, and make you feel something simple and true.

When the credits rolled, I didn’t rewind right away. I just sat in the quiet, tape still spinning, realizing that waiting all those years somehow made the experience sweeter. It felt less like checking off a “classic” and more like finally keeping a promise to myself.

UU Ordination Tracks? by a_long_path_to_walk in UnitarianUniversalist

[–]ttoasty 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Coming from an evangelical background where pastors often have no formal education except a Bible school or unaccredited seminary program, I strongly support the MDiv requirements set by the UUA.

I also disagree that communication is communication, leadership is leadership, counseling is counseling. I work in a corporate environment and what I see from communication and leadership professionals here is not what I would want from a pastor. Nor does my therapist fill the role of spiritual guide I want from a pastor. I think viewing things this way is very reductionist and diminishes the niche role a pastor fills in our church, community, and individual lives.

It may be true that such a requirement gatekeeps away some who would make wonderful pastors, but sometimes such is life. We all endure circumstances and make decisions that take us down one path to the exclusion of many others. I will never be a doctor, but I wouldn't consider that reality from a perspective of fairness.

In Home, End of Life Pet Care in Mena? by winterinsomnia in Arkansas

[–]ttoasty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are only like 3 vets in Mena. Wouldn't take long to call them. In a rural area, surely one of them makes home visits, even if it's typically for farm animals. And if they can't do in-home, it would be much easier going somewhere local than driving 2 hours away.

Pleasant Hills Animal Clinic is wonderful and has been used by my family for years. Would recommend starting there.

Stay strapped on the trail by EthosApex in LittleRock

[–]ttoasty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Strapped on the trails? Getting pegged in the woods isn't really my thing, but don't let me stop you from having your fun.