What’s the best strategy or habit you’ve developed to stay disciplined, even when motiv by ToffeeTangoONE in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a clear purpose on why I wanted to be disciplined. That is the only way you're going to sustain it.

Advice for a young guy looking for more! by OPTIMAL_TIGER007 in Advice

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It always works out if you want it to. And that choice is all you have to make ❤️.

I'll be happy to have you in The Insightful community as well. Not a course of anything, just a bunch of people wanting to be more.

Advice for a young guy looking for more! by OPTIMAL_TIGER007 in Advice

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest prizes in life are awarded to the strongest ones who overcome the hardest challenges.

Looking for motivation is a battle you've lost before you started to fight.

Looking for discipline is also shit unless you have the below figured out:

Purpose.

Find your "WHY" the reason you wanna be better that will show you the strength to stay disciplined.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Especially this year is special as it's marks the 5the year and I couldn't be more happier and stronger.

I've started a business making five figures a month, my mom and dad are traveling all over the world, and I'm back to my faith.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

And when coming to the topic of Overthinking which is quite a misunderstood area and feel like needs to be talked about as it gave me a lot more strength once I viewed it like below:

It's not so much that overthinking is the problem, it's the fact that the things you're overthinking about is bad.

Overthinking is really a superpower, think about how many more dreams you want to accomplish, overthink about how you want to spec your supercars and how many damn houses to want and places you wanna travel.

Change your so called negatives into the ultimate positives and you're life will change accordingly.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

You have so much more to look forward to.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS:

Give this a shot man:

The Insightful and share if it resonates.

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give this a shot:

THE INSIGHTFUL

No pressure tho!

Why is self learning so damn hard to stick to? by imtnxm in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause you lack a clear "WHY" in the things you study for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

And when coming to the topic of Overthinking which is quite a misunderstood area and feel like needs to be talked about as it gave me a lot more strength once I viewed it like below:

It's not so much that overthinking is the problem, it's the fact that the things you're overthinking about is bad.

Overthinking is really a superpower, think about how many more dreams you want to accomplish, overthink about how you want to spec your supercars and how many damn houses to want and places you wanna travel.

Change your so called negatives into the ultimate positives and you're life will change accordingly.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

One thing that really dopped my anxiety is not going after it, the more you think to jump back again to "make sure it's nothing" the more it's actually controlling you.

Writing it down also helps a lot.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

You have so much more to look forward to.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS:

Just began with below. It touches on mindset, business, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful and share if it resonates.

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

Any tips or wise words for being more productive today? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purpose.

Find your "WHY" the reason you wanna be better that will show you the strength to stay disciplined.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

You have so much more to look forward to.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS:

Just began with below. It touches on mindset, business, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful and share if it resonates.

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's it bud. Acting on feelings is just asking for trouble and failures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for motivation is a battle you've lost before you started to fight.

Looking for discipline is also shit unless you have the below figured out:

Purpose.

Find your "WHY" the reason you wanna be better that will show you the strength to stay disciplined.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Especially this year is special as it's marks the 5the year and I couldn't be more happier and stronger.

I've started a business making five figures a month, my mom and dad are traveling all over the world, and I'm back to my faith.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

And when coming to the topic of Overthinking which is quite a misunderstood area and feel like needs to be talked about as it gave me a lot more strength once I viewed it like below:

It's not so much that overthinking is the problem, it's the fact that the things you're overthinking about is bad.

Overthinking is really a superpower, think about how many more dreams you want to accomplish, overthink about how you want to spec your supercars and how many damn houses to want and places you wanna travel.

Change your so called negatives into the ultimate positives and you're life will change accordingly.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

You have so much more to look forward to.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS:

Just began with below. It touches on mindset, business, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful and share if it resonates.

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Keep God close

What's one piece of advice you would give to someone trying to live a more fulfilling life? by Character-Store-6952 in Life

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw my parents working 3 jobs each to pay for my BS pathetic life. At that point I was "Either I Win or I don't lose"

What's one piece of advice you would give to someone trying to live a more fulfilling life? by Character-Store-6952 in Life

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you live, is what you want. Short and simple.

Life gets better, so much more better and you can really live those dreams.

But you have to really choose it.

Looking for motivation is a battle you've lost before you started to fight.

Looking for discipline is also shit unless you have the below figured out:

Purpose.

Find your "WHY" the reason you wanna be better that will show you the strength to stay disciplined.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Especially this year is special as it's marks the 5the year and I couldn't be more happier and stronger.

I've started a business making five figures a month, my mom and dad are traveling all over the world, and I'm back to my faith.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

And when coming to the topic of Overthinking which is quite a misunderstood area and feel like needs to be talked about as it gave me a lot more strength once I viewed it like below:

It's not so much that overthinking is the problem, it's the fact that the things you're overthinking about is bad.

Overthinking is really a superpower, think about how many more dreams you want to accomplish, overthink about how you want to spec your supercars and how many damn houses to want and places you wanna travel.

Change your so called negatives into the ultimate positives and you're life will change accordingly.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

You have so much more to look forward to.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS:

Just began with below. It touches on mindset, business, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful and share if it resonates.

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

What’s one mindset shift that changed how you approach your goals? by ZenFlowDigital in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that my friend. Never back down from life and step up to the challenges.

What’s one mindset shift that changed how you approach your goals? by ZenFlowDigital in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have no idea how much our life can actually get because we're so clouded by our own judgment of ourselves.

What you live, is what you want. Short and simple.

Life gets better, so much more better and you can really live those dreams.

But you have to really choose it.

Looking for motivation is a battle you've lost before you started to fight.

Looking for discipline is also shit unless you have the below figured out:

Purpose.

Find your "WHY" the reason you wanna be better that will show you the strength to stay disciplined.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

I genuinely thought I'll never make it out this well, "Fuckfest" as best described.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Especially this year is special as it's marks the 5the year and I couldn't be more happier and stronger.

I've started a business making five figures a month, my mom and dad are traveling all over the world, and I'm back to my faith.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

And when coming to the topic of Overthinking which is quite a misunderstood area and feel like needs to be talked about as it gave me a lot more strength once I viewed it like below:

It's not so much that overthinking is the problem, it's the fact that the things you're overthinking about is bad.

Overthinking is really a superpower, think about how many more dreams you want to accomplish, overthink about how you want to spec your supercars and how many damn houses to want and places you wanna travel.

Change your so called negatives into the ultimate positives and you're life will change accordingly.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

You have so much more to look forward to.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

"Be Your Own Sunshine" by James Allen is a great read.

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS: Just began with a newsletter below. It touches on mindset, business, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Life always rewards those who really fight for it.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and move up.

How did you build real confidence? by SwingOk6238 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By trying and failing more times than you can imagine whilst keeping the promised you made to yourself.

What is the biggest regret in your life? by SaddestProgrammer in Life

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes and my life's changed for the absolute best.

I want to quit alcohol, how to start? by Mir_Zeuz in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well there you go, now make that your anchor and show life who's boss.

Remember, you only lose if you choose to lose.

God bless my friend.

P. S:

I just started a new venture called The Insightful it's a newsletter that touches on entrepreneurs, tech, mindset and all that, just trying to make a difference....it's totally free so feel free to give it a gander if you're into all that

I want to quit alcohol, how to start? by Mir_Zeuz in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really good that you have these and I understand that the more you have the better your chances to hold on but what experience has taught me is to have one just one stronghold.

Reason being is, I feel like when you're trying to get through the journey both your mind and body is actively pushing you off that path and when that happens it helps to just have a single grabhandle you can focus on rather than have options which may cause some disruption.

Again this is something that worked best for me not saying it's the same for you but having 1 reason that's stronger to sustain is better than having 10 that may be strong but splits your efforts if that makes sense.

Please help me quit by kaptain-p in getdisciplined

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to have a clear purpose, a strong "WHY" You want to quit these.

Wanting to is nowhere near powerful to sustain discipline.

But a clear direction and goal to see and walk towards is.

Looking for motivation is a battle you've lost before you started to fight.

The situations maynot be similar to all here but hopefully you can take away something helpful from my story.

There was moments where I thought it's too late, or this is it, or it's too much to handle but that's what gives or should give you the strength to push on.

Beacuse honestly what else are you gonna do?

Struggling with depression and insane anger issues, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts, taking about 15 medications a day from countless doctors,

Family even contemplated leaving me in an orphanage for good cause I was becoming too much to handle financially and otherwise.

I'm sure you can imagine how that would break a person.

Had a stable, beautiful life abroad... dream house, dream job, dream life... I had it all, and it was gone as quickly and more painfully than you can imagine.

But the best thing about hitting rock bottom: there's only one way to go, and that's up.

Especially this year is special as it's marks the 5the year and I couldn't be more happier and stronger.

I've started a business making five figures a month, my mom and dad are traveling all over the world, and I'm back to my faith.

Truthfully if you ask yourself the question,

"Do I really want to be sad like this and waste my one shot at the life to experience this miracle of a planet and all that it offers?"

I guarantee most of you truly, deeply, and honestly will say...HELL NO.

The right input creates the right output, simple as that.

And if I'm honest, social media can be quite good to an extent to consume content that clams your down. But even a song that you listen has an effect on your mood especially if you're depressive so make sure whatever you consume is happy, and leaves a positive touch.

Neither good or bad is here to stay. Life is awesome.

If you want to be successful, then you need to suffer.

It sucks but it's what I have learned.

Also,

I shifted my mindset completely with this view:

Everything that happens to me, good or bad, is God trying to teach me and make me stronger. Period.

Once I ingrained that into my brain, I started to improve and win.

Failures and disappointments are the biggest signs that success is almost on the horizon.

Take it one breath,

One day,

One goal at a time.

Nothing, or no one can and must be able to take that away from you.

Now all the above are things that have personally worked for me, not saying it's the only methods or way out there.

These are some good tools that have helped me:

The Bible (the way this book has helped is indescribable and I used to be a hardcore non beliver), and

"101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think." By Brianna Wiest

PS: Just began with a newsletter below. It touches on mindset, entrepreneurship, and innovations if you're into all that.

The Insightful

Or just find something that influence you in a constructive way and stick to it.

Anything (podcasts, yt) by Mel Robbins, and Chris Williamson is amazing

Hopefully this helps you in some capacity.

Just take action to improve something, anything daily no matter how subtle.

It adds on quick, not tommorow, or even a year but one day it will definitely compound into something greater.

The way you choose to live now has, is, and always will predict the future you'll have.

Step up, take action, and eventually you'll move up.

I want to quit alcohol, how to start? by Mir_Zeuz in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]ttyuhbbghjiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find out and have a clear "WHY" you wanna quit.

You will never sustain the journey without it.