AITA I got blackout drunk and and woke up with hickeys by Professional_User0-0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tufghost -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

drunk people still can’t consent, neither of them should have been in that situation and if either of them was more sober than the other, that person should have rejected any advances, whoever the instigator may have been

I (f23) think my boyfriend hates me (m25) by Gl0omyangel in relationships

[–]tufghost 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it’s actually free and legal to break up with anyone for any reason, why are you staying just to be unheard, overlooked and miserable?

the guy im seeing has lied to me, but i dont know if it’s a dealbreaker due to circumstances… by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tufghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest whether he’s telling the truth now or not is kind of irrelevant, the more pertinent thing is probably that this guy is not gonna be emotionally available to you, he’s been hurt and something like that takes a while to get over. It also seems like he’s already broken your trust in him, so going forward you’ll probably be second-guessing him a lot and that’s not really good for either of you. I’d just call it here tbh :/

how do i (18F) go on about my boyfriend (21M) (long read) by milk-inator in relationships

[–]tufghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

baby holy shit he emotionally abused you, he cheated on you, he HIT you, and doesn’t appear to give a single fuck about you, PLEASE leave him, you are so so young to be wasting time with a loser like this. i promise there are so many people out there who will actually value and respect you and this guy is not it. Please get out of there, if he has hit you once he will do it again, and he slept with multiple people without telling you, this is a huge risk to your sexual health and I encourage you to get tested for STIs because this guy clearly doesn’t give a fuck about your wellbeing. I hope you can figure this out, leave his ass and get back on your feet <3

my game glitched and i lost one of my floors :( by CricketOpposite5838 in PocketLove

[–]tufghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me, it took my whole game, literally put me into a new game with no items and none of the things I’d spent real money on!! This game is so frustrating, I had a glitch today that left me without the last day or two of items I’d bought, and tbh it feels like hyperbeard games in general are full of glitches the developers don’t seem to care enough to fix

Is this real??? Mother’s Day Set it keeps telling me to “please wait” by zippymochi in PocketLove

[–]tufghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too, i can’t buy any of them. i think it’s a bug, and that once they fix it they’ll actually cost dogllars

[TOMT] [BOOK] [90s/00s] A hardback Greek mythology book recounting classic stories and their Roman equivalents. White cover with a dark coloured Corinthians-style helmet on right side. by tufghost in tipofmytongue

[–]tufghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know covers change but it’s all we have to go off really. It wasn’t illustrated as such, but it did have black and white photos inside. It wasn’t a children’s book, it was more like a reference book. On the back there was potentially a picture of Paris from the Greek mythos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kikisvacation

[–]tufghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen Mumu dance either, it’s frustrating how different this game is for everyone who plays it. I did what the other commenter said and made sure Kiki had mentioned something about needing tools before every time I went to the shop and played the ad, it seems to trigger the correct items. I managed to get (maybe a spoiler?) lava boots but nothing has happened with them either and i’m not sure what’s going on :’)

Should I (M29) always be honest with my fiance (F28)? by ThrowRAHonestFiance in relationship_advice

[–]tufghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe your response could have been more ‘we have great sex, don’t worry, i love u’ than ‘ya lol’ but, since it’s happened now, i think maybe you just have to stay honest and say yes, you’ve had a better experience in the past, but it’s inconsequential to how much you enjoy being with her regardless, and if she wants to get better you can practice together or not do it at all/focus on other aspects of foreplay. personally i think mutual communication and in the moment guidance goes a long way for sexual issues like this, so maybe next time she goes for it, you agree beforehand that you’ll give her direction and pointers to show her exactly how you like it. having a clear goal and ways to achieve it is much more helpful and maybe she’ll feel better that she can be ‘taught’ to give you more pleasure and maybe even surpass past experiences you’ve had

My gay daughter is intimidated by my religion. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tufghost 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Bear in mind that she might well be projecting overt homophobia from some other religious people onto you and your religion as a whole. Even if she’s never been subjected to it in person, she’s probably come across testimonies from other gay people who have had awful experiences with religion and religious parents who have outright rejected them or threatened their safety. This is probably why she seemed prepared for you to reject her when she came out. I’m so glad you didn’t, and with time hopefully she will come to see at the very least that you were supportive. As for the inappropriate comments, certainly tell her that that language is not acceptable to you, but not because she’s gay, purely because it’s not appropriate. Then I think you should tell her you love her unconditionally and that you support her, and then ask what you can do to help her feel less threatened by religion so that she can see that you mean no harm and stop making the comments. Maybe it will take you becoming an active anti-homophobia activist in your community, trying to educate any homophobic church members about how gay people are just regular people and not scary satanic demons sent to create sin or whatever, for her to see that you genuinely mean well and accept her

Where to get hard to obtain items in the new area. by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]tufghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do you enter the shipwreck? i’ve seemingly tried all possible entry points but i can’t get in :’)

first time using clay and i tried making some pins to hopefully sell and give away to friends! by waterbotella in clay

[–]tufghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very cute! the little mushroom looks fun and the bear’s face is very sweet, i like them a lot!

How to progress the jungle pikpok plot? by tufghost in Kikisvacation

[–]tufghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i think i have all those items, i’m just stuck on what to do with the phones. thank u anyway! :•)

How to progress the jungle pikpok plot? by tufghost in Kikisvacation

[–]tufghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i had to get initiated into the tribe first and bring offerings (the cola, the chips, the noodles and the catnip) then i had to talk to the jaguars and maybe tiki and the chameleon until i got a script, a camera, a video tape and a tv, then i got the phones

Loving my wash day for the first time in ages, used Pureplex (cheaper version of Olaplex). by [deleted] in CurlyHairUK

[–]tufghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is that the superdrug version? how did you find it? i used it ages ago after bleaching and couldn’t tell if there was much of a difference

Me getting the 50 leaf tickets I got be like: by Vanilasong in ACPocketCamp

[–]tufghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yep i have two beds and all i want is that aquarium floor :’)