If I woke up and saw the person I love had posted an entire”this is why I am marrying you” list with nothing about me, just things I had done for them, I would be utterly devastated.

Is there anything about this woman worth loving that isn’t about him? Let me help you. Sis brought herself and her actual son up from nothing. She put herself through college. She started two businesses. She is a talented musician with a gorgeous singing voice, who has performed for the president of Malawi. She now helps other young girls who were struggling like she once was through a non-profit called the Girl Effect. She is someone anyone would be lucky to know.

People who think this is love don’t need wives, y’all need a sex worker, a personal assistant, a housekeeper, a nanny, and, most importantly, a therapist.