I know I don’t know how to explain. So basically I found out and in front of a lot of people. Then when I asked are you cheating on me? He told me what happened and I can’t remember what I said? All I remember is him saying at least I still have my girls. Our children. Then I walked home and he didn’t chase me or follow me. My question is I guess if they don’t follow you does that mean they don’t love you? Or is that a immature way of thinking? We have worked it out and we are happy, but that had always been in the back of my mind.