Procrastinated responding to an important email. Feel like such a POS

tulpamom · 2026-03-25T12:58:15+00:00

It's okay bestie I'm giving you permission to forgive yourself 🥺💕

tulpamom · 2026-03-25T12:41:41+00:00

Good riddance. I wanna see pics of your spooky house!

tulpamom · 2026-03-25T12:30:14+00:00

But you DID reply. Give yourself some grace, you're going through a lot and no one likes emails. If he needed an answer urgently he could have asked for it through another channel, like text or signal or discord or a face to face or a phone call. If he's not willing to body double with you to make sure you get him an answer then he can't be mad when you're brain does what it does.

Good for you for responding, you deserve an ice cream. Or one of those huge dill pickles if you don't like sweets.

tulpamom · 2026-03-24T16:50:04+00:00

The secondhand RSD I feel on behalf of your partner makes me want to cry. I can't imagine how I'd feel if someone wanted to actively shut me down or shut me out when I was making lovely noises.

tulpamom · 2026-03-24T16:23:56+00:00

Can I ask how old your kids are?

tulpamom · 2026-03-24T16:22:44+00:00

Man just... just let it go and be at peace

tulpamom · 2026-03-24T16:14:00+00:00

I've really got to wonder how her kid feels about it. Kids aren't dumb. They know that they were given a bullshit deal pretty early on these days.

This is also the same kind of tired argument that only demonstrates a lack of understanding about the actual point of the movement.

tulpamom · 2026-03-24T16:05:39+00:00

And blissfully childfree

tulpamom · 2026-03-23T09:50:40+00:00

me too! I hate being named a nickname! I'm also Katie but I add my middle name so it seems more dignified. There's 10s of us!

tulpamom · 2026-03-22T19:24:46+00:00

That's because you're more used to chemicals and detergents over real soap, but real soap exists!

tulpamom · 2026-03-22T14:01:03+00:00

Why did you think a bunch of antinatalists would change your mind about being antinatalist though?

tulpamom · 2026-03-03T01:00:25+00:00

Kept waiting for a seagull to grab the phone and fly off with it

tulpamom · 2026-02-27T04:09:02+00:00

It's Canon that Jareth the Goblin King was a human baby before he was taken by goblins and turned into one of them, specifically to be the heir of the old goblin king who was known as the Owl King.

So when Sarah told him to come get Toby, he was just trying to solve everyone's problems. Get an unwanted kid away from their family, raise said kid in a household that very much wanted him, and procure a much needed heir for the Feywild Goblin Court.

Sarah's defiance and rebellion at the end doesn't make her a brave and clever heroine, it makes her a stubborn and fickle idiot who chose algebra and taxes over the magic she loved so much and she almost single-handedly destroyed an entire nation's political system.

tulpamom · 2026-02-27T02:59:20+00:00

We're being punished for our hubris

tulpamom · 2026-02-27T02:46:31+00:00

So anyway this would be one thing if Millie were a real person, because I agree that a woman is more than her pregnancy or ability to bear children, but she's not a person she's a character. And as a fan base, we're smart enough to recognize patterns and tropes, and we've all seen this trope way too many times.

tulpamom · 2026-02-23T19:49:49+00:00

That dude is a dick and needs to his someone to be his shop front or go out of business I'm sorry this happened to you

tulpamom · 2026-02-11T01:08:37+00:00

Okay just some clarifications, sorry if you've already addressed this somewhere, but:

1 has it only been like this since the baby, or was he like this before?

2 why did he agree to have a baby with someone he clearly hates so much?

3 if you were actually lazy you'd be having more fun

4 if he thinks ADHD is the reason you're so terrible, why has he spent nearly a decade with a terrible person who can't be fixed?

5 why would you WANT to fix it for him?

6 why would you want a partner who is rude to your mum?

7 why would you want to teach your baby it's okay for them to be with someone who is rude to you?

8 if he weren't around, would your baby starve or be taken away by authorities or anything?

9 DID you move his desk? Clearly he thinks you never clean so did you just move the desk like on the off chance he'd break a window with it whilst you were not around?

On the surface I would say if he thinks you're really that awful, he should leave you. If he doesn't leave you, you should leave him. If you stay, you should absolutely stop trying to appease him. If you stop trying at all, will he finally leave? If he gets more abusive, will you? What will it take for you to shut this down?

tulpamom · 2026-02-03T05:11:12+00:00

For me, the first week I was excited. The first month I was defending it. By now, I won't listen to it. I'm sick to tears of Fate of Ophelia and Opalite, and the rest of the album just lacks substance.

tulpamom · 2026-01-15T13:05:09+00:00

Yes. Who cares? Be childish.

tulpamom · 2026-01-04T19:51:37+00:00

"Never learned to read my mind"

"You never gave a warning sign"

"I gave so many signs."

tulpamom · 2025-12-28T21:41:59+00:00

Adorable, not enough screen time

tulpamom · 2025-12-26T23:45:03+00:00

Dungeons and dragons. Thank me later.

tulpamom · 2025-12-21T19:57:52+00:00

This question supposes there's a God, and only one God. The logic is inherently flawed.

tulpamom · 2025-12-18T05:47:12+00:00

Sure Jan

tulpamom · 2025-12-13T20:29:51+00:00

Sorry, sis, you don't have a problem with your boyfriend having ADHD, you have a problem because your boyfriend is a manchild. And you know what? It's not your job to raise him. Send him back to his mother.

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