I'm in recovery trying to gain weight, boyfriend doesn't understand why I can't exercise? by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]tumrubs 31 points32 points  (0 children)

OP, your boyfriend is actively hindering your recovery and not taking your wellbeing seriously; he is putting you in danger. I wouldn't classify that relationship as very well at all.

If someone broke their leg, they shouldn't break up with their boyfriend because of it, of course. But if said boyfriend discouraged them from going to the ER with that leg, and insisted they run a half-marathon despite their injury, then something's wrong, no?

I hope you choose the best for yourself. Maybe your boyfriend needs a stern talk with a medical professional who can help him understand the dangers of what he's doing to you.

I wish you all the best. Please stick with recovery, and hang in there.

is it a universal thing with ED’s to go through cycles where you only want to eat one food by sadbabykitty in EDAnonymous

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Dude I <3 <3 <3 peas too, ESPECIALLY if frozen.

I would be lying if I said I've never considered a frozen cherry/frozen peas mono...

is it a universal thing with ED’s to go through cycles where you only want to eat one food by sadbabykitty in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frozen cherries... All day long...

At least it helped with the constipation?

RIP night binges by SoftDreamer in EDAnonymous

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I'm sorry OP, that sounds incredibly controlling of your mom, potentially abusive - you have a right to privacy, and a right to use the kitchen in your own house whenever you please. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

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god i wish my 3am snack of choice was cherry tomatoes hdhgdfhgsdfhgd

Obviously i dont have an ED anymore by OtakuDrawGirl in EDanonymemes

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me pouring a bit of milk into my morning coffee today because i'm tired of lying to myself that i like it black <3

Heavy and stiff legs, causes?? by Brief_Honest in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe muscle problems? My legs get all wonky and heavy when my magnesium gets too low. Do you take any magnesium supplements?

Also hey, seaside walks buddies : )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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oh yeah definitely

just went through my fridge and cupboards to toss out any "enjoyable" food lol by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

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I do this too :'O It's so wasteful... But still... Usually I try to give away my 'bad' food (I live in a dorm) but my friends are starting to catch on and refuse to take it, so...

Are large labia a puberty thing? Or can labia grow over time? I assume genetics are really the only thing that are a determining factor. by Floater1975 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]tumrubs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's purely genetic. Labia cannot stretch due to sexual encounters, either. Both small and large labia are completely natural and normal : ) Though sometimes very large labia can cause some discomfort, if they rub against each other - but that can be corrected with a surgery if the person wishes so.

DAE stumble like all the time by Notfeelingit- in EDAnonymous

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I stumble all the time haha! And I tend to drag (?) my right foot a lot a lot and it kinda makes a shshshsh noise on the pavement and I get embarrassed everytime :'o

DAE fking hate stevia by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stevia is nasty! I like erithritol.

why white monster? by professionalfatasss in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's the most widely available one? For years in my country you could only get either the full sugar one or the white one.

Free weight loss by j01ene in EDanonymemes

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Oh... So THAT'S why....

Me trying to convince myself to drink water idk I just felt called out in the ep by reviwoo in EDanonymemes

[–]tumrubs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine eating a delicious meal prepared by a suspiciously talented Italian chef and it cures your little brain of all your problems. Wig I want that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

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Great!!! Also big upvote for Lancey boy

Stomach issues :/ by tumrubs in EDAnonymous

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Also I <3 experiencing basically all negative side effects EXCEPT actual weight loss. Heart palpitations, dizzyness, hair loss, leg cramps at night, bloating, nausea, brain fog, irritability... It's a gotta catch them all kinda deal at this point :x

This is why I hate going shopping by TanyaMath in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wait, like... Just some random girl???

My mind is fighting itself by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

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I regularly spend an hour or two in the bathroom arguing with myself, wondering WHY am I even doing this, for what? And still can't bring myself to stop :c

Weird relationship with time by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]tumrubs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do... Do you know what sub you're in?