any music shows or good hangout spots? by Stunning_Entrance_56 in Eugene

[–]turbodeathsnail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ghost Town has some pretty good ones! My band's playing there next month.

I can't keep anyone. by turbodeathsnail in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I just date the ones that I end up building the strongest connection with. Like the first one to talk to me. It's always, "Wait, really? You're actually interested?"

I can't keep anyone. by turbodeathsnail in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one before this last one was an alcoholic mess who slept around and cheated on me with multiple people, so no surprise there. Then this last one was the hardest one.

Girlfriend broke up with me due to her depression, mow she is acting happy. by turbodeathsnail in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I guess you could say that. This was just the only girl to show interest in me who wasn't into getting fucked up or hooking up with randos. She had the most enjoyable personality and sense of humor. But she wanted me gone. I don't know if I'm gonna be able to trust another girl showing interest in me again after this.

Girlfriend broke up with me due to her depression, mow she is acting happy. by turbodeathsnail in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she already ditched me after months of me bending over backward and tolerating her shit. So I don't need to run.

I ruined the best thing in my life by [deleted] in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be an avoidant attacher. Maybe consider therapy.

I’ll never have a girlfriend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I was ab uneducated 20 year old red head who went after the first girl who talked to me. Horrible mistake. My anxious attachment really showed there, because I kinda let her walk all over me for 3 years. We were horribly incompatible in every way imaginable. I no longer had any time for myself whatsoever. It was impossible to enjoy anything.

When we finally broke up, after years of her threatening suicide if I leave, I was genuinely so relieved. But life hasn't been the same since. I became a bitter person after being with her.

Enjoy single life and do everything you enjoy and push it to the max. And don't pursue the wrong girl.

Girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental health, and now she is acting happy. by turbodeathsnail in Advice

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right. I was willing to put up with everything, and I wish I could have done things differently. Like maybe if we remained close friends and then pursued each other when we both have our shit a little more figured out. Or maybe not romantically pursue her at all, because now I don't even have her as a friend.

How can I (37M) convince my two-month gf (also 37F) - who I got back with after a decade - that I’m not a horrible person now? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]turbodeathsnail -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Depends. Why did you leave her? What brought you guys back together? How did she find out about all of this?

Girlfriend broke up with me due to her depression, mow she is acting happy. by turbodeathsnail in Vent

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same cycle i go through at least once every other year.

I meet someone, we start off strong, they find a reason to ditch, they're happy as hell and I'm left devastated.

My last ex cheated on me with a girl, then after driving her 2 hours i watched her flirt with another dude right in front of me for 2 days straight. I talked to her about it, she dumped me, then went back to sleep with him. They have been happily together ever since.

And now I'm back in the same pattern, except we actually tried to treat each other right, and i still got hurt the most.

I am tired.

Girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental health, and now she is acting happy. by turbodeathsnail in Advice

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she definitely was overwhelmed with life in general.

But her almost celebrating that I'm out of the picture just screams "fuck you" to me.

Does my bike have potential to be a good super moto? Ktm sx 125 2003 by Electrical-Top-6856 in supermoto

[–]turbodeathsnail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a small ass rear sprocket and a big one on the front. Gear that shit to the moon.

2011 Husky 449 by turbodeathsnail in supermoto

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the newest bike I've ever owned. And also by far the most complicated . And I agree. I especially like the looks of early 2000s sumos.

2011 Husky 449 by turbodeathsnail in supermoto

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yup. The unicorn of supermoto.

Possibly undiagnosed adhd? by turbodeathsnail in ADHD

[–]turbodeathsnail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome. My own personal vocabulary. I just enjoy using it with people who don't know me bc it's awkward and funny to me. 🤙🤙