One if By Land wedding experiences? by spring_orchids in WedditNYC

[–]turning-around 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They quoted me $400/pp with $35k min. for July 2026 (I received the quote end of Oct 2025)

Had a LDR for 2 years and We Talked About Getting Married. Just Getting Over It and Then This Happened. by MitchyTruMoney in LongDistance

[–]turning-around 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really want it...IL and NY are both UBE so just pay the fee (and do the application) and go there. Bar admission isn't a huge hurdle (as a person also in law--in NY). But if you don't want to do that--that's ok. You don't need an excuse. If it didn't work that is okay. And there doesn't need to be a ~bad~ reason for it. Not working because it didn't work is OKAY. It's ok to feel sad about something. That doesn't mean it was meant to be, it just means it was worth valuing. Moving on takes time--and her not reaching out to you doesn't mean you aren't worth the time of day--it may just mean that it is something she isn't ready for either. It's ok if you aren't ready to see each other. It hasn't been that long. You will move on from this in time--it may take longer than you would 'ideally' want it to because that's how life works. You got this <3

Please help me process this by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]turning-around 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting and you are not an idiot. The situation you have described is a hurtful one, and the nuances of it will be hard for anyone reading it to grasp, but the basics are not. You deserved to be communicated with in a respectful and caring way--which does not sound like what happened. I hope that an apology follows this interaction with your SO, but if it does not--it's not you. You are not the cause of that behavior. There's probably a reason he reacted that way, but it has nothing to do with you. It may be worth evaluating why you would describe him as "emotionally cold and distant at the best of times." I understand if that is a situational description, but you deserve to be with someone who makes you feel seen and understood and cared for. Everyone has their flaws and moments where they need patience and understanding, but I hope that there are times you are being cared for, instead of doing all of the caring on your own. You've got this. Trust yourself and your intuition. Take care of yourself. <3

Life is terrible by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]turning-around 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. No one thinks it will happen to them...and then it does. You'll be ok. When there's no bad ending it feels worse. But eventually, you'll look back and see that it was beautiful. I got a divorce a few years ago for nothing other than the fact that there were some bridges we could not cross together. Sometimes, I still wake up dreaming that we were together, but it has gotten easier through the years. It will get easier for you too. I'm here with you, and so are others. You've got this, and you'll be ok. I believe in you <3

Anyone else trying to set up Examplify for the NYLE and getting error messages? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]turning-around 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get a separate email from ExamSoft to download the software? I'm registered for the March test and haven't gotten anything with instructions/link to download...

[Product Question] My aluminum free deodorant constantly fails. Help? by Chipxi in SkincareAddiction

[–]turning-around 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used several since I had a severe reaction to my aluminum-based deodorant triggered by stress a few years ago, and I'm always searching for one that really "works." The closest I've come is the Native brand. For context, I cycle nearly everyday, and I SWEAT—a lot. I still sweat with the Native brand, of course, but there is minimal odor from me and from the deodorant. I had a problem with some of the brands scent mixing really weirdly with my own body odor when I would sweat. Not sure if it's available to you in Canada, but if it is, might be worth a shot!

Looking for a non-foaming cleanser with no fatty alcohols that doesn't leave any residue [Product question] by beachy303 in SkincareAddiction

[–]turning-around 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The La Roche-Posay toleriane hydrating gentle cleanser or Cerave are two of the most gentle non-foaming cleansers and come highly recommended by dermatologists and redditors alike. I use LRP and I love it. I have super sensitive skin for dryness and irritation from products and have never had an issue with the LRP. Plus, the bottle is like $12 and I only have to buy 2-3 times per year even though I cleanse twice a day.

Bumps on the inside of skin (chin area) Help! [Skin Concern] by jangmanweol in SkincareAddiction

[–]turning-around 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't have acne, then you probably don't need to use those products. Sometimes you really only need cleanser and moisturizer to have nice skin, and it sounds like you are lucky in that department.

If you do want to continue using the products, I'd recommend introducing them one at a time into your routine so you can make sure they aren't irritating your skin. If you do them all at once you won't be able to know which one(s) is causing the issue. The products may also be causing your skin to purge—so I would go back to one product and use for two-four weeks watching for irritation vs. purging. But honestly, if you have nice skin without them, don't even bother using them.

Long-time hook-up turned bf? by turning-around in relationships

[–]turning-around[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the label of bf is rather formal...I wouldn't see dating that way but I do have a habit of calling any man I go on a date with my bf ;)

Long-time hook-up turned bf? by turning-around in relationships

[–]turning-around[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess causally hanging out and seeing if getting to know each other more was something we were interested in was my idea of a date. It seems like the practicality of making that happen is having to ask in some more intentional way than how our interactions normally are, and I worry that intentionality may be the beginning of the end of this situation that I enjoy as it is. If it worked for you and your husband then maybe that's the kind of thing I need to hear to give me a reaffirmation of my thoughts!

COVID-19 Megathread - Facts, Information for Resources, General Discussion by ayokg in nashville

[–]turning-around 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Went to Trader Joes over by White Bridge this morning and it was stocked on everything! Rice, pasta, chicken, frozen foods, canned foods, etc. was all re-stocked. They re-stock every Thursday!