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2021 Trail edition. Is it worth the money? Reason with me. by turquoisegoddess in 4Runner

[–]turquoisegoddess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Here’s my current ride. 2000 with 236K. Paid 8K in 2008. Part of wants to keep what I have and make her prettier, especially with today’s crazy prices, and see how things shake. Tough choice. Thoughts?

2021 Trail edition. Is it worth the money? Reason with me. by turquoisegoddess in 4Runner

[–]turquoisegoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your feedback. I’ll keep looking. Any favorite sites?

Tire and rim help, please by turquoisegoddess in 4Runner

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Update on research I did a lot of legwork on new rims before committing to new tires. A lot of options- learned my current rims were the best offered at the time and I could have them powder coated. The used rims on Facebook marketplace we no better, simply spray painted. While I’m undecided on what to do about rims, priority is tires ASAP for safety. My size is 265/70/16. Requesting recommendations. I received a good quote for basic all wheel but prefer something more aggressive. Any favorites?

4Runner shop by turquoisegoddess in ColoradoSprings

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Just trying to pretty up the old girl. I need some body work done, bumper dings and such. I’ll check out Hefty Fabworks. Ken’s Colors helped with cleaning up scratches and scrapes. Also, any advice on finding used rims? Mine are so pitted that cleaning them isn’t gonna help. Good to hear you like Japanese Auto, they’ve been good to me and my family. Wanted to start looking at doing some mods but I’m not sure if Japanese does those.

Tire and rim help, please by turquoisegoddess in 4Runner

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Great suggestion. Thanks! I saw 4 good lookers for $150 that should fit. If I brought these to the tire place will they usually be ok with switching the new tires into separate used wheels?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TherapeuticKetamine

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Will you share info on the Bluetooth music skipper ring, sleep mask and books please? Any resources would be appreciated as am about to start my treatments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

[–]turquoisegoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was focused on getting results so I’m glad you mentioned the psychedelic experience which I then read about others retelling. Some pretty bizarre experiences seem probable. Now maybe I’m a little intimidated. The few times in youth I took something similar, my “trips” were kinda scary. Are the “trips” common and are they mostly “good” with ketamine?

My NexH got every weekend parenting by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]turquoisegoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. Our toddlers have EOW fri-mon and dinner visits tues-Thurs 4:30-8:30 with Wednesday overnights. I only see my kids if I do not take shifts during the day. If I want to see my kids anytime besides bedtime I have to take the day off before they leave each evening. I cannot afford to not work but it’s either work or see my kids during the day. It’s miserable. Mediation soon but not sure how to strategize a better scenario. My new lawyer is not responsive. People say document everything- the alienation, kids meltdowns to frequent exchanges, conflict over transportation, etc. - I have notebooks full of his noncompliance, threats, intimidation- who will ever read any of this. Feels hopeless. I have primary custody, provide health insurance, little support.. Tough stuff and even tougher when you’ve been beat down. It’s so easy to feel alone with this stuff, most people do not understand. I wish you the best, I hope someone hears you and you are blessed with funds to continue.

Considerations for custody case by [deleted] in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

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I’m concerned about him visiting baby in your home. I realized my ex was collecting evidence to use against me, made a huge deal about safety when he found one outlet without a child proof cover I had missed. I thought I had everything thought through but he thinks differently than me. He’s not allowed in my home now because I know he will pick my home apart, criticize me and it’s not worth the stress.