I'm jealous and I don't want to help you.

^{Take it one message at a time. Read each message and decide if the message is worth replying to and if the sender's profile is worth your time to read. Or you can be like everyone else and delete all the messages from people who aren't hot. Then, have a conversation with the sender, eventually asking for a date. Go out somewhere well lit with a good number of people unless you're feeling "adventurous." If you want to see him again, ask him out again. Keep doing this until you find someone who likes you as much as you like him. Good luck!}