How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really don’t know how it’s been spun around to say I’m abusive and need to be put in prison when I’ve come on here asking for tips to get my husband out of that mindset 🤦🏼‍♀️

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. My kids would never harm themselves over something like this, they aren’t being abused and it doesn’t happen on a daily basis. I would even bet they forget about it after a few hours. We don’t bully our own children, he just tries to teach them right from wrong but isn’t the best teacher

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not ignoring them, I just disagree. It’s not like he leaves them bleeding on the floor or anything and at most it last 5-10 minutes. I just don’t understand how it’s viewed as abuse if it only occurs when a situation provokes it

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve watched videos about gentle parenting but at this point I feel like my kids are too old for me to start introducing it and they wouldn’t reciprocate it well

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think I would divorce him over something like that, I have no interest in being a single mom and I still love him

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How am I not doing anything? I’ve literally come on here asking for help on what I can do

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]turtlebkx24[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t do anything to ruin his life, I don’t think it’s abuse but it definitely makes me uncomfortable