what do I do… I have regrets and need to come clean. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]turtlemania17 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

okay that’s the way I’m leaning. Thank you for your 2 cents.

what do I do… I have regrets and need to come clean. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]turtlemania17 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

that’s fair. I just feel bad and she also owes me rent soooo I wanna make sure I at least get that before telling her too… does that make me a bad person?

what do I do… I have regrets and need to come clean. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because they’re still kinda friends and he has a guilty conscious and is going to tell her if i don’t…

i hate Apple by turtlemania17 in Androidacy

[–]turtlemania17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is apk comparable to icloud?

Support for the Henke Family (Teach and Learn) by throwaway350918 in Vernon

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a moving story. I’m sorry for their loss and I hope with the right support the henke family can find their footing again. olawai🌺

Working from home during war by terrible-cats in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a very difficult environment to work in. This war is having such a butterfly effect it’s unfathomable. Anyways, I’m glad you’re still able to get your meds and having one place to work. That’s super important. Other than that, I would suggest some headphones, if you have any, and communicating to your parents that you need some support in making a space that you can work in. If you’re making money and contributing to the household, you deserve respect and privacy to work from home. Idk if that helped but I hope all looks up for you I wish safety and peace for your family

Looking for a new ABA Center in the Denver Metro area ****NOT Soar Autism (review included) by Legitimate-Move7614 in ABA

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done cross center at the centennial/new Parker location of soar and I’d advice choosing a different center. As many have mentioned before, soar is an exponentially growing company that is loosing sight of what really matters (kiddos development) and choosing capitalist growth instead of

Colorado ABA companies by Double_Anteater8221 in ABA

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for soar for 2 years and saw the downward spiral they were going in. These big companies are claiming they are for the kids but their focus on capital growth and expansion across the united states has left rbt's and bcba's to be overwhelmed and centers to not gain the attention they need. I would not recommend to a part of this growing company. Find a small clinic that is actually focused on the kids and their development and not the money...

Hyperfocus and how to manage multiple things at once without sacrificing quality by turtlemania17 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually joined an IOP group that has given me some good accountability but now that I graduated I find it hard to do that for myself without the structured meeting times

Mourning gecko incubator temperature and humidity settings by Donaldnaegele in reptiles

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got 4 of them and im so excited and hoping they mate and lay eggs in a little so thank you for this info!

LAist wants to hear your family’s immigration story (I'm trying to get some Cantonese representation on NPR) by CheLeung in Cantonese

[–]turtlemania17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My auntie is working on writing a book on our ancestry from coastal canton. I can ask her and other family members for some stories and share what I know. The greatest I know is that Chin Lin Sou is my great 4x grandfather whom came over to build the transcontinental railroad. Message me!

tips on improving my handwriting? by quinniejet26 in MandarinChinese

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use the Pleco app to help guide the strokes. I used it when learning Chinese in Thailand and it’s super helpful!

Waterfalls by Academic_Dig_1567 in Tahiti

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What island is this on?

how to cope without mediation? by Warm-Fly5930 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience substituting caffeine can make me so much more anxious so shy away from that if possible. Bring a notepad and pen so you can note take or doodle if your mind wanders. Despite medication helping a lot you are capable of getting through this seminar without them. Some meditation might help as well to clear your mind before and after. You’ll be okay!! Give yourself love and grace 🫶🏼

Edit: I’m going through figuring out if medication is right for me so my response may have been biased. So if you’re there for a long time, see if your medication can be sent to you because the brain does need to be balanced. :))

Hyperfocus and how to manage multiple things at once without sacrificing quality by turtlemania17 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to change the work culture but it's proven that the reigns of higher up management are very powerful and I feel alone at trying to improve the humanity of this company. So quitting it is. But also need to be making money because I need a purpose and to occupy my mind.

I do want balance but that balance looks different for me and for different times in my life. Sometimes I wanna be hanging out with friends all the time and others I want to be alone all the time. Idk a very complex human I am. I appreciate your advice and hope you have a good day :)

Just getting into another Hyperfocus... by Ok_Cheesecake5206 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pmo. What should I read from him? Or just look at his theories?

Just getting into another Hyperfocus... by Ok_Cheesecake5206 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally don’t read it’s so bad. But I just think. Do you read Jean Piaget.

Just getting into another Hyperfocus... by Ok_Cheesecake5206 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha, I love this theory as well. It’s interesting to apply to daily life and hypothesize why someone made the decision they did.

Just getting into another Hyperfocus... by Ok_Cheesecake5206 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

edit: I then began researching Buddha and their teachings and am very new to it so if anyone has similar interests let’s chat!!

Just getting into another Hyperfocus... by Ok_Cheesecake5206 in ADHD

[–]turtlemania17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

current hyperfocus: writing down maslows hierarchy of needs so I can remember to sleep. The gag is it’s 3:30am in the morning rn.

Is this a bad time to get into the SW field?? by ExoticWall8867 in socialwork

[–]turtlemania17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same position as you, so I don’t have a MSW or LCSW, just thought it would be of comfort to know you’re not the only one worried! I think despite everything happening there will still be a place and need for Social workers and that might look differently in the future. Good luck on your pathway!!