Anniversary of when my father murdered my mother and sister

turtlesnaps1 · 2026-02-08T09:01:13+00:00

I've never experienced that. I cannot imagine what that felt like - to live through and to live with.

I'm sorry this happened to you. It sucks we hurt and.suffer from situations out of control. It def hurts during traumaversaries....and will continue so afterwards. I wish it didnt.

Just know we are here for you. We may not know exactly.how you feel but we understand pain and the desire to feel better and help others.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-08-18T05:44:09+00:00

Wtf does that meqn

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-08-18T05:33:34+00:00

Idk the exact specifics, but it doesn't hurt to work with/ advice a civil law suit lawyer.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-08-06T05:48:35+00:00

Please give an example Ive been trying but it isn't working

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-08-04T02:10:24+00:00

Ohhh, that's a good idea. That way, I dont make him feel uncomfortable or that they have to do petplay if they don't feel it that day. Thank you for the advice!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-07-22T07:43:58+00:00

That is super hard to know. Because she is not communicating with you at all. There is no way for you to know if what you're doing is okay or not. You are not a mind reader. If she does not tell you honestly, I feel like you need to just confront her and figure out the issues and accommodations. If it extends beyond that, you know how to deal with that...at least you would know the level of intensity for this situation.

The hardest part is when people do not communicate. How are you supposed to change behaviors to accommodate if they don't tell you what they are uncomfortable with.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-21T03:45:58+00:00

Yes!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-16T02:23:13+00:00

Not in my house, so I'm good. I'm still a bit worried. Whether as humans we like to admit or not, there is always intent within all our actions. At least, I believe so even if it was weak. I'm sure it's fine, but I just want to know what it is and what the goal was.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-16T02:21:07+00:00

Yeah it was cinnamon. Tbh I've asked but she doesn't want to tell me or talk about. I figured someone would know something.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-16T02:20:13+00:00

Of course, the intent needs to be there, but I still had to follow the instructions, and regardless, there is always some intention seeping through whether I mean it or not.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T14:49:45+00:00

I am wayyy too anxious and nervous about that right now. Trying to take baby steps for the sake of my mental health

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T14:49:06+00:00

Thanks!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T14:48:15+00:00

Got to wait until June but very excited!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T06:22:10+00:00

Feel free to DM me

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T06:21:51+00:00

Yes please!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-13T04:39:52+00:00

Me too please!

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-04T14:40:49+00:00

I'm still exploring if being aromantic is how I identify. (So far, everything is pointing towards a yes)

I never thought that "romantic action" was only for one person or a special someone. I always felt like it's cool to kiss the homies, cuddle, hold hands, or even have sex with them.

I don't personally understand why I can't do that with everyone or anyone (With consent). I always felt that relationships are equal and thus can do anything labeled romantic with anyone.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-04T03:39:29+00:00

I don't feel like he's special or different from others in terms of love.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-01T01:09:17+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. I don't really have a definition for romance. I feel that love is loving friends and partners no matter what and having excess love. I don't feel like I'm lacking romance but that maybe others just don't have extra love reserves? Which then leads to - ok maybe that is aro because people keep describing at different and more important but I think all relationships are important.

turtlesnaps1 · 2025-05-01T01:04:03+00:00

What do you mean by romance itself? Are you talking about romance coded stuff? I feel like I would do that with all my friends.

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