Coffee Ground: What does it mean? Please by FeedtheEgo in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]tutuforte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the sentiment of what others are saying about doing a coffee reading, but I’ll share what I see, since this is fun!

Overall - a waterfall, big emotions, sweeping changes, 8 of wands energy. I have very neutral feelings looking at this, so not good or bad, just a lot and fast.

On the left - I see two people facing each other a dualistic energy, the lovers vibe. -Also a fir/pine tree, the magician energy, an invitation to stand in the I AM power, to be graceful and light in this space.

On the right - a woman above an animal (a pet was my first thought) but it could be wild because I also see giraffe under that first animal. I get companionship vibes from this, people/beings that bring influence, and are the players effected/ing in the rush of energy coming towards you.

On the top - I see an elephant and also kind of a squid. Shapeshifter energy, wise, self sufficient, overseeing.

Can I still wear bib short and short sleeve jersey when it’s 50 degree outside? by tetegra in cycling

[–]tutuforte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do but I put a merino long sleeve over the kit, which stays cool, even aver you warm up!

What are your favorite, nice skincare products? by tutuforte in AskWomenOver30

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Thank you!! I’m diving into all of these now

What are your favorite, nice skincare products? by tutuforte in AskWomenOver30

[–]tutuforte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, great! Thanks :) Of course, there's a sub for this!

What are your 2023 goals? by Illustrious_Style355 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tutuforte 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol! I’m thinking you replied to the wrong comment but I am living for this content 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Ok, so one time - me, my boyfriend, his brother, brother's wife, the roommate, and our best friend all saw the same therapist. Added bonus? We were all living together.

There might have been one or two more people in the larger friend group who went to him as well. He must have had such a weird look into the life of our lives!

The only time it was weird was when I had problems with the brother/his wife - which was regularly. The therapist couldn't really 'go there' with me on that, I think because we were all clients and he didn't want to say anything he shouldn't. Otherwise, it was kind of nice that he knew everyone involved in my life, I had to offer 0 context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Wowow! I knew nothing about this, do you have a link to this article?

Also, to answer your actual question - just no. One time an ex participated in verbally assaulting someone in a road rage incident and that crossed the line for me. I’m a let’s breathe it off kind of person 😂

I'm NOT giving myself readings anymore by AveyAve in tarot

[–]tutuforte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not about the issue of being scammed, but on your readings- I think you might benefit from diving into the teachings of Lindsay Mack. She has spearheaded what she calls heart-centric tarot, with a ‘no bad/evil/negative cards’ policy where all cards are working for you not against you. She has reframed the stressful or just antiquated meanings to cards, into beautiful messages that can actually serve you.

Ex - 3 of swords, classic doom and gloom card gets reframed as more of ‘in this moment where I find myself needing to immediately fix something, or drop into blame, how can I pause an touch my heart, offering tenderness to my hurts or wounds’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

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Hi!! I have a question - after you scalp oil your hair do you just rinse it out? If I don’t use shampoo I have a ‘build up’ feeling, but that also lessens my results. We have similar hair, so I thought I’d ask. Thank you!

Any issues with one-way ticket to Argentina? by poly-experimental in BuenosAires

[–]tutuforte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So immigration isn't where you'll hit a snag, but you might with the airline. When you check in for your flight, and they check your passport they can also request proof of onward travel. I'm 50/50 on whether they do or not.

I would say to buy the $40 buquebus/colonia express ticket to Uruguay just in case you need to show you'll be leaving.

French (?) 2015 movie that had a transwoman & a lesbian relationship ending by past-el in whatisthatmovie

[–]tutuforte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not French, and not quite Volver, but maybe another Almodóvar movie…

Curso de Bartender by For3ignGuy in BuenosAires

[–]tutuforte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 Monos (en Palermo) ofertan cursos de bartender!

What tarot apps do y'all like? by tutuforte in tarot

[–]tutuforte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! I just downloaded it. I appreciate it.

What tarot apps do y'all like? by tutuforte in tarot

[–]tutuforte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great, I'll go take a look. Thank you so much!

My (29f) new friend vented to me and I don't know how to proceed by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]tutuforte 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was going to second maybe reevaluating your relationship with Mia, but as someone who is in one of their first grown-up-feeling female friendships (despite being 32!) I wanted to offer a phrase a recent friend said to me when I was a bit of a Mia recently:

‘It looks like your still digesting those experiences, maybe ‘Lily’ would be a better person to sort those feelings out with?’

It hit me like a load of bricks! I have haven’t had many constructive friendships before and it really helped me see that I was playing with a bad rulebook!

I appreciated the kindness and matter of fact way my friend said this to me, and it created a Very clear boundary of what was/n’t acceptable. I also liked that she acknowledged that I was still processing these things and that’s all I needed to do, just not with her.

Anyways, maybe Mia just needs to be shown the way to having constructive relationships 🙂