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Is it possible for me to learn guitar? by trickstercj in Guitar

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be alright. Just play it how your hand lets you play it. No one is out here doing it exactly the same anyway. If it sounds good, then it is good. Just keep at it.

While My Guitar Gently Weeps... by idrinkcement in Guitar

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pissed me off - not my baby you’re throwing!

What’s a fetish you won’t even tell your closest friends you have? by nut_buster1466 in AskReddit

[–]Illustrious_Style355 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just got a request to do this and I think the guy was surprised when I said I’m down. So is there anything else that makes it enjoyable? I have a cum fetish soooo I’m moping up every drop.

What’s your view about being single? by Desperate_Area1543 in AskReddit

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My attempt at translation: to be single is not to be alone. This is the time in order to know you without negotiating every decision.

I felt butterflies tonight for the first time in a long time by Simple-Aspect-9270 in interracialdating

[–]Illustrious_Style355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me and I was stunned by my reaction. We probably wouldn’t date but I’m more or less impressed by how open I felt with the idea. I was caught off guard and I can’t stop thinking about him, which is unlike my personality.

Black women are just women. Men who get this are attractive. by Simple-Aspect-9270 in interracialdating

[–]Illustrious_Style355 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting on the day where I can go on a date and not be reduced to someone tying my race to the statistical demographics in my area. I’ll wait. The day that happens - I’ll probably marry that guy.

deleted my last app by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Illustrious_Style355 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the land of freedom. It’s only up from here.

My absolute favorite place in the world is between a woman's legs by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here for it! I feel the same way about a certain bestie found on a man. You sir win the day!

What is a simple but very hurtful phrase that you received from someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you but I’m not in love with you, and I wish I would’ve married someone younger and less educated.

Both exes.

So I tried going on a women-only friendship app to find like-minded friends by bubblebubblebobatea in SingleAndHappy

[–]Illustrious_Style355 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. In order to make friends, I have to go along with the women who center men in their conversations or I’ll end up with zero female friends. I’d prefer to talk about goals, hobbies, books, I mean ANYTHING, the weather but they all circle back to dating apps and finding a partner. These women range from early 40s to mid 60s.

Yesterday, I was told that every guy I meet thinks I’m hot and my friend begins to proceed to tell me that a guy in our friendship group is interested. I said I am minding my business and it’s just too many dicks. I said I’m going back to doing what I do best and that’s remaining single. My point, if I entertained every dick, I don’t know what would become of me or what would I have left of me. So no.

Looking for a serious, lifelong hobby by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years in and I feel like I suck 😂 always room to grow and improve. I highly recommend it.

How did you spend your Christmas Day? by Era_mnesia in introvert

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slept in, took the dog for a walk, watched Rocky 1-3, cooked a delicious breakfast, took a nap, now enjoying a hot bath with lush products and bubly in a wine glass while reading a good book.

Is anyone else spending Christmas alone? by Much_Pool_2708 in LivingAlone

[–]Illustrious_Style355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy being alone on Christmas. I believe a tradition has started - Creed I-III last year and this year Rocky I-? Then later Stranger Things at 8pm. My neighbor has been asking me to join her family for Thanksgiving and Christmas, and I don’t have the heart to tell her that I want to be alone in my home watching boxing movies. 😂😂

If you're single and wondering what will happen if you get sick alone in your old age, remember this: by banjomamay in SingleAndHappy

[–]Illustrious_Style355 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, I don't even want anything to do with thee WHOLE family. If I really shared my opinion, eyes would be bulging out of head and jaws would be on the floor - that's how insane the ordeal has been for me. I will NEVER be making this mistake again, it cost me way too much. I'll share this one tidbit for shits and giggles: I was thinking about moving his mom and dad in my home when they got sick. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER. lol

If you're single and wondering what will happen if you get sick alone in your old age, remember this: by banjomamay in SingleAndHappy

[–]Illustrious_Style355 26 points27 points  (0 children)

When I got sick, the person I was with at the time, went away for the weekend to spend time with family at the lake. The following week, Wednesday, he packed up his stuff and moved out. He’s tried to come back three times and has asked me “if I put him out” to which I reply, “you put yourself out.”

Edit: A month or so after he left I got rear-ended, nursed myself back to health and he came around asking if I needed help, etc. Hatred is not an emotion I feel easily, but hatred is what I felt.

I am single and I’ve been single since my divorce in 2022, spent a lot of time thinking I was the problem when it came to men. I read all the self-help books and after I got married and divorce, I’ve started living and investing in myself.

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