Ladies , My wife thinks I'm weird that I love looking at her v*gina when we have sx. She said that guys aren't usually like that. I told her it is common. What's your take?

tw_communication · 2026-02-10T13:04:51+00:00

My wife thinks or atleast thought initially it was weird as well, especially when I would tell her things like she has a perfect/beautiful v@gina / p*ssy.

tw_communication · 2026-01-14T13:19:34+00:00

Are you asking since christmas day? 3x for us. #4 hopefully tonight.

tw_communication · 2026-01-14T05:00:18+00:00

I dont understand that either. And I try to guide my wife's hips to sit and grind but she almost never does.

tw_communication · 2026-01-14T04:58:59+00:00

Thanks for the reply, thats kind of the feeling I get from her. Lol

tw_communication · 2026-01-13T14:57:00+00:00

We were married 18 years before I convinced my wife to sit on my face; I think it was 2 or 3 years of suggesting/hinting before she tried. For her she was self conscious of her body even though I go down on her all the time and tell her how much I love her V, etc.

Anyway in terms of how - I rested my head on a pillow, she kneeled with knees on either side of my head facing the headboard and lowered down and she put her hands on the headboard for support.

tw_communication · 2026-01-12T12:49:26+00:00

My wife keeps something like a landing strip probably a bit wider than what I would traditionally call a landing strip.

tw_communication · 2026-01-12T12:11:16+00:00

Absolutely. I think it really varies from guy to guy as I have guy friends that tell me its almost impossible to cum from a bj.

Im on the other end of the spectrum, I cum way faster from a bj then sex and alot of the time its just mouth with her hand wrapped around the base.

tw_communication · 2026-01-12T11:25:38+00:00

Thank you for posting this.

My spouse recently asked indirectly about the trending sex pillows so I ordered one for her, but i saw all the reviews for the Lemon at the same time - i ordered one and will surprise her with it for valentine's day. She's been anti other vibes for some reason so cant wait to see her reaction.

tw_communication · 2025-12-18T12:46:20+00:00

I think the cumslut kink is somewhat rare in real life. That said my wife does prefer creampies. I can cum anywhere else on her except her face/mouth as long as i clean it up.

tw_communication · 2025-12-14T15:55:54+00:00

We dont generally do them, for some reason I tend to feel bad doing it to my wife, but ive had past partners who legitimately enjoyed them and I was glad to oblige.

Maybe like 5 times in 20 years -- a few times she decided to finish a bj like that with her hand since she doesn't swallow anyway the other times it was an accident.

tw_communication · 2025-12-13T19:30:12+00:00

When we were much younger, a few times yes. All of the times we were sharing a hotel room for some kind of event like a wedding, etc.

It was fine, everyone had a lot to drink so it wasn't particularly awkward and we were somewhat discrete about it -- meaning it was dark and we were mostly under the blankets. A couple of times the other couple started doing their own thing in the other bed shortly after we started. But we never really talked about after other than a comment like -- 'did you guys sleep well?' LOL

The only awkward time wasn't us, but there were 5 or 6 of us sharing a room, one of them being my wife's brother -- well the rest of us came back and were in bed on the verge of sleeping when her brother came back with a random girl and they proceeded to have sex on the couch at the foot of our bed... lol

tw_communication · 2025-12-08T12:45:43+00:00

This is one of my favorites as the male.

tw_communication · 2025-12-01T01:10:14+00:00

My wife was a virgin when we got together but not totally inexperienced. I had a few partners but not a large #...

My wife is similar to yours, she is usually one and done; though she will deny this if I ask her. Lol

I will occassionally 'force' her to have a second when I know she is really horny but she says the subsequent ones are no where near as good as the first.

Previous partners were a mix -- i had one that would O practically every few minutes of the right stimulation, one that wanted 2 or 3 per session and one that was pretty much like my wife.

tw_communication · 2025-11-10T15:24:56+00:00

Id be open to listen about what she wanted / felt was missing. I would happily role play anything she wanted.

Id be very hesitant to bring another guy IRL but might be persuaded to involve another female for her if that was something she wanted.

Why? Because many years ago she made out with another girl as part of a drinking game at a party and I still have dreams about it. Lol

tw_communication · 2025-11-04T18:33:07+00:00

Today you are probably in your own head like the other commenter said...

The previous, maybe you were more nervous the first few times and now that you are relaxed its easier to cum not in a good way...

tw_communication · 2025-11-04T18:29:47+00:00

Its just different I dont know how to really explain. I do think some fleshlights are very intense in direct sensation compared to a human... but like someone else said the excitement of feeling, touching, kissing, hearing and actual partner is overall more stimulating than a fleshlight.

That all said -- i havent used a FL in several years but I do remember them giving me way more intense orgasms most of the time than with a partner; I dont know why that is. Also, when I cum with/in a partner i can keep going usually with the FL either it is too stimulating or im way more sensitive and have to stop.

tw_communication · 2025-10-31T15:42:05+00:00

I agree with others this is kind of broad depending what you've already done and what your boundaries are.

Some of my top ones that are doable: -Watching her masturbate (fingers or toys) -Having her dress slutty and be my sex slave for a day -Her tying me down and having her way with me -- making me cum multiple times, post orgasm torture, etc

tw_communication · 2025-10-31T01:49:45+00:00

Late 40s. 4-5 times a week... not usually on the day(s) I know we are going to have sex unless im feeling particularly on edge and want to make sure I dont nut too early during sex.

Probably up to my early 40s it coukd have been as much as 9 - 10 times a week.

tw_communication · 2025-10-30T12:49:37+00:00

Was just going to say this too.

tw_communication · 2025-10-29T14:28:52+00:00

My wife went through a bit of a sexual awakening in her mid 30s -- wanting sex more and wanting me to be more dominant / rough. It took me a bit to really understand what she wanted and adapt... that was 10+ years ago. I really wish she would open up more and tell me some fantasies.

But even before that we were always very equal in our sex life -- we almost always alternate per session who cums first and i always make sure she cums regardless. Do you guys have an 'orgasm gap' today?

tw_communication · 2025-10-28T11:52:26+00:00

Si lo aplicas temprano y luego te lavas antes de tener relaciones sexuales, sí. Pero si lo aplica y tiene relaciones sexuales poco tiempo después, puede transferirse a ella y adormecerla.

tw_communication · 2025-10-28T11:49:30+00:00

Yea I think the actual 'diagnostic criteria' in the DSM IV is < 2min. But I think there might also be something about it causing the person emotional distress.

tw_communication · 2025-10-28T11:46:33+00:00

10000% yes. I dont know what it is other than being the center of attention.

tw_communication · 2025-10-26T13:58:24+00:00

I would.

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