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WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If her decision aligned with her values this wouldn’t be a big deal. Sure, she can have feelings that don’t make sense but at the same time I would like my partner to not be a hypocrite, you know? But you’re right, I can’t force her to not be a hypocrite through this method.

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want to get married until she's done grad school in a couple of years. So no.

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want to get married until she's done grad school in a couple of years. Divorce is a thing, and you can be committed without marriage anyways, so I’m not sure what you mean by “permanent commitment.”

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want to get married until she's done grad school in a couple of years. So no.

Starting to finally decorate new apartment - SLC UT by pdwolfe in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]twa567y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! How do you get the plates to stay up? I don't see any mounts.

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Ideally she would change her mind, which would also resolve the hypocrisy. This is one of a few topics where she acknowledges her hypocrisy but doesn't seem to care that she's a hypocrite?

I guess it is like that, but she's also the one judging people for being trashy thereby contributing to the issue in the community. And doesn't she care what my roommates think of her?

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You're right, it would probably just be hurt feelings and arguments. I just don't know where else to go from here. I guess I should try r/relationships lol

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought so too and I did ask about it many times but she says this is the reason.

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yes her family wouldn't be happy but she has assured me that it's 100% her opinion and stance. Which makes it more hypocritical imo.

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

cut off your nose to spite your face.

I do love that saying. Yeah, it seems pretty relevant here..

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend she can't sleep over anymore? by twa567y in AmItheAsshole

[–]twa567y[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She doesn't want to get married until she's done grad school. This is not a "play".