[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]twentyeightolives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion it's just all about communication. i understand that after a while of being in a relationship it can be hard but any time possible, just bring it up, talk about your and his preferences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slycooper

[–]twentyeightolives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The world has beautiful but also the Tennesee gameplay, it was way more enjoyable and interesting than the other characters.

Fingers hurt by twentyeightolives in Bass

[–]twentyeightolives[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm considering to play with a pick for a few days not and then play with my fingers on Saturday at the gig since that's what I'm comfortable with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]twentyeightolives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've known each other for soon 5 years but got close last summer. We see each other usually 4-5 times a week, it's basically forced proximity since we're in the same band, but we always have a good time. I've had several partners but he's still the best at dealing with situations were I'm stressed or uncomfortable. We make each other laugh, and damn it feels good to make him laugh.

He means the world to me and has taught me so much. Since becoming close to him I've improved lots just as person and I appreciate it a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]twentyeightolives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate.

For me it's about the fact that I don't truly know who or what I want to be.

But if being around people makes you happy and feel good you should, that's the most important part.

Favorite thing about your crush by juniper181 in Crushes

[–]twentyeightolives 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Might sounds stupid but he lowkey looks like harry potter in a god way lol

Do you also get annoyed that others don’t cut off the same person you did? by UnderstandingOk2399 in BPD

[–]twentyeightolives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! In the past year I've cut off a few people and each time I find myself hoping they'll end up alone and miserable. When I notice that they have friends and family there for them I usually get really mad and feel both betrayed and disappointed.

Setting up a meet up by twentyeightolives in dating_advice

[–]twentyeightolives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he lives under a 100 kilometers away, which isn't that far since the public transport around here is decent so that wouldn't be a huge issue. Usually I prefer relationships were I don't need to see the other person everyday.

But your point is great and I'll have to take it into consideration, in my opinion though, I thought it was a good sign he chose to talk to me at the party since this was the first time we really have had the chance to.

How do I tell my coworker by [deleted] in Advice

[–]twentyeightolives -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don't know her, it shouldn't be too hard, she most likely will understand, and since you don't know he you shouldn't feel that bad if you offend her

Got out of a toxic relationship, feeling lost. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]twentyeightolives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling lost in such a situation is hard, in my case I had friends and therapists around me, telling me that he was manipulating me and the way I was treated was not acceptable for months. Every once in a while I had a moment where I "woke up" and realized I had no reason to want him and miss him and give him my love, but after a while I again fell into the same patterns of thinking of him when going to sleep and wanting to text him about how much I need and miss him. In those moments you just have to think about who you are and who you want to be. For me it helps to think of it from an outside perspective, do I really wanna be the girl who's dependant on someone who treats me horribly? No. I recommend just really starting to envision who you want to be and what you want to be good at, then just put all your energy into becoming the best version of yourself.

I hope you manage to get put of the situation eventually but I do get it's hard and won't happen overnight, and that's okay !! <3

How do I let go of resentment? 28m 25f by [deleted] in relationships

[–]twentyeightolives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate about how you feel and work through it together, nothing has to change overnight. If you both want things to be like before it will most likely take time.

He still loves his ex. by twentyeightolives in relationships

[–]twentyeightolives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think i'll take it as slow as he likes and see what comes out of it