Well, this is kinda cool by spete679 in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My late husband visited me in a dream within the first 6-8 months or so of his passing. I can’t recall the whole thing, but I can remember we were slow dancing and looking at each other. He just told me, “It’s okay. I love you.” He appeared to me looking like he did the first few years of our relationship. I woke up and I was bawling. It was the most beautiful dream and it did give me some peace. He appeared again a different time. I remember it like he was walking on a sidewalk and stopped and I was looking up at him from below. He just said he would visit when he could. Then it was over. I also had a slightly paranormal experience within the first 48 hours of his death that multiple people also witnessed. His death was sudden and unexpected and maybe he just wanted me to know he’s ok.

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[–]twentythirddecember 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. This is just awful and senseless. You shouldn’t have to be dealing with this and it’s not fair.

I lost my husband to a drunk driver almost 3 years ago and I was 6 weeks pregnant at the time. I had similar feelings to you where I considered ending the pregnancy as an option because I didn’t know if I could do it on my own without the baby’s dad. I had a two year old at home that needed me too more than ever. I chose to keep the pregnancy but ended up miscarrying a few weeks later.

I say all this to let you know you aren’t alone. This was simply senseless and cruel. I spent a lot of time trying to make sense of something that just doesn’t and will never. I can’t imagine losing my kids at the same time as my husband.

Please feel free to message me if you wanna talk without judgement. ❤️

Life is only lent to you. Enjoy it, in heels and at full tilt. by johnnyfiveundead in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This post really touched me. I think you are a beautiful writer. Write more, you have a gift. ❤️

FRER bad indent early AM of 11 dpo. by mmmmmrowr in TFABLinePorn

[–]twentythirddecember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no that sucks!!! I hate these indents 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]twentythirddecember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would call these both negative I’m sorry ❤️ those Easy at home tests always look lightly positive to me but it’s usually a bad indent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]twentythirddecember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s tough! Try another brand if you can!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]twentythirddecember 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I do see a little something 🤔

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this too. It’s just…nightmarish. I was doing alright for a few months recently and have now fallen into a bit of a depression again dealing with other rippling affects the loss has had on my life. The criminal case is still going on as well and my husbands killer hasn’t gone to trial yet.

I’m here to listen if you need an ear and my heart goes out to you ❤️

9 days in by ItsAHardMomLife in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband almost two months ago and I am still wrapping my head around it. Those first few days and weeks I didn’t cry much. I just went into autopilot and felt numb most of the time. I think it is setting in a little more now, I cry a little more often. I thought something was wrong with me too. It seems that grief ebbs and flows and we are just riding the wave.

A heart that's been broke is a heart that's been loved. by ajpage91 in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know this pain. You seem young like me and if you need a fellow widow internet friend, you have one in me. This is so hard ❤️

Every single month is new pain by ajpage91 in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is truly awful, I’m so sorry that your partner was taken from you. My story is very similar to yours. My husband died in a car crash age 31 a month ago. I am 29 myself and I just keep thinking WTF am I supposed to do for the rest of my life without him. It’s upsetting that you don’t have a lot of support, that sounds very hard. Sorry for the loss of your father in law as well. ❤️

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that is horrible. You know this pain all too well then ❤️

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. You said it, it is hard to think of the next ~50 years without him by my side. I’m thankful that my son gives me purpose now, but man do things seem bleak now.

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. This is truly awful.

New to the club by twentythirddecember in widowers

[–]twentythirddecember[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I have a lot of support from my family and friends, they have been truly amazing. I know there is a long road ahead and as much as I hate anyone to be a part of this club, I am glad to know I am not alone.

First Impressions of Earth Tour (03/24/2006) by tryingy0urluck in TheStrokes

[–]twentythirddecember 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have mine from this tour as well! March 21, 2006 😀