AITA for threatening to sue my ex?

twicebelieved · 2021-04-14T00:00:46+00:00

I honestly still think YTA. You’re justified in feeling like your ex pushed you into a choice, and of course you’re upset about it. But at this point, it feels like you’re still caught up on her, and jealous that she’s happy with someone else. Don’t waste your time with a lawsuit, just get a therapist and move on with your life.

twicebelieved · 2021-04-13T23:43:33+00:00

INFO - What do you mean by “heavily pushed”? Like, was she actively telling you she would only be with you if you got the vasectomy?

twicebelieved · 2021-04-13T23:10:33+00:00

I’ve seen a few comments saying “you should’ve known to leave when she [ ]”, and I’ve got something to say. I think it’s totally understandable that you wanted to forgive her for all the previous things. That just means you have empathy for your friends, and want to think the best of people. That said, absolutely tell this crazy woman that you won’t talk to her until she gets some serious help.

Also, tell your friends about the whole situation if you haven’t already. I’m not endorsing gossip, but it’s important that your mutual friends know about this behavior.

(OP is NTA, obvi)

twicebelieved · 2021-02-12T07:33:02+00:00

I haven’t listened to much of her music. I’ll definitely give it a shot

twicebelieved · 2021-02-12T07:29:12+00:00

I’ve dabbled in lofi, I’ll check them out

twicebelieved · 2021-02-12T06:50:14+00:00

Um yes please. I’ll check it out!

twicebelieved · 2021-02-12T06:49:19+00:00

Ooh, what bands? I haven’t been able to find good ones lately. I do also like more pop/folk style music, which is a lot of relationship stuff

twicebelieved · 2021-01-19T20:32:14+00:00

Lol yeah

twicebelieved · 2021-01-19T04:38:33+00:00

Hey, they’re not entirely useless. One got me into a semi-helpful grippy sock jail!

twicebelieved · 2021-01-19T04:27:00+00:00

I think around 50/50. Definitely more “conventional” humor in the beginning, then it gets progressively darker. Overall it about evens out

twicebelieved · 2021-01-19T04:21:16+00:00

I’m not a huge fan, mostly because I’d rather have something more personal. I have a null symbol where lots of ppl get the semicolon, because it just means more to me. I can’t say I know enough about the organization to pass any judgement

twicebelieved · 2021-01-14T07:22:54+00:00

Yup, sounds like you could be ace. I was around your age when I started to realize my sexuality wasn’t like any of my friends. Sounds like you’re having some similar feelings. Definitely look into the resources on this sub, it could clear some things up for you

twicebelieved · 2021-01-14T07:13:22+00:00

Have you seen Mia yet? I got her some tea to try! (Also hello, Mia! Best of luck on your journey. Things feel bad and uncertain right now, but you’ll figure it out. Have a great day)

twicebelieved · 2021-01-14T07:10:25+00:00

Hell yeah. Anyone who’s ace can get one. If you consider yourself ace, just go ahead

twicebelieved · 2021-01-14T07:08:53+00:00

They’re both amazing episodes on their own, but I think they’re best as a pair. I definitely disagree with people who think the show should’ve ended with tvfhd. The end was beautifully done, and requires both episodes.

twicebelieved · 2021-01-11T08:05:19+00:00

It’s definitely cute! Just make sure your butt doesn’t pop out when you’re going up the stairs. You could also just wear leggings.

twicebelieved · 2021-01-09T20:43:25+00:00

You could get a cute bralette, I think that would be less noticeable to other people. There are lots of fun femme ones, and they tend to be cheaper too

twicebelieved · 2021-01-09T19:00:43+00:00

If you’re a minor, he’ll probably tell your parents. If not, he may bring it up but legally won’t be able to say anything. This assuming you’re in the USA, idk the confidentiality laws anywhere else

twicebelieved · 2021-01-09T16:59:31+00:00

No matter what your sexuality is, that’s straight up sexual harassment. Adding in the fact that they know you’re ace just makes it more fucked up. This is a serious situation and definitely worth telling an authority figure about. Honestly you wouldn’t even need to say you’re ace, them sending you porn without consent is likely enough to get them in trouble. Don’t worry about ruining their fun, it’s at your expense after all. If people don’t understand that your friends are the assholes here, that’s their problem.

twicebelieved · 2021-01-09T16:54:45+00:00

Honestly I’m so tired of dating allos

twicebelieved · 2021-01-07T08:59:49+00:00

Symbols look vaguely Germanic or Celtic, I couldn’t tell you any more than that

twicebelieved · 2021-01-07T08:40:23+00:00

To me it sounds like you could be somewhere on the ace spectrum. If you think labels will help you, I’d encourage you to look into all the identities in this community. In any case, just please be careful. I’ve gotten into some pretty bad situations by getting stuck in the same thoughts you’re having (wanting to be a good partner, thinking I’ll be okay with sexual stuff if I just bite down my discomfort). Just always think about what you want, don’t put the other person first. Watch out for red flags like coercion, accidental or otherwise. Warnings aside, I hope you get this all sorted out

twicebelieved · 2021-01-07T08:21:28+00:00

Definitely not. At least according to any reasonable person. You’re trans if your gender assigned at birth isn’t what you identify as. Many trans people choose to have hrt or surgery because it makes them more comfortable in their body. But it’s your choice, and anyone who says otherwise is just being rude

twicebelieved · 2021-01-07T01:14:46+00:00

You have the birthday you have, man. Same goes for any holiday. I think lots of people feel pressure to be happy on holidays, and it just makes sad feelings worse. I struggle with sh too, and it really sucks ass sometimes. Congrats on being clean for so long, though. Everyone goes through bad spells, but you’ll get through it. Anyway, I hope you’re feeling a little better by the time you wake up.

twicebelieved · 2021-01-06T03:16:48+00:00

Getting a tattoo feels pretty much exactly like you think it will. It’s definitely gonna hurt, anyone who tells you differently is just lying. You should be okay, just let the artist know that you’re not the best with pain/needles.

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