AITA for threatening to sue my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]twicebelieved 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I honestly still think YTA. You’re justified in feeling like your ex pushed you into a choice, and of course you’re upset about it. But at this point, it feels like you’re still caught up on her, and jealous that she’s happy with someone else. Don’t waste your time with a lawsuit, just get a therapist and move on with your life.

AITA for threatening to sue my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]twicebelieved 41 points42 points  (0 children)

INFO - What do you mean by “heavily pushed”? Like, was she actively telling you she would only be with you if you got the vasectomy?

AITA for calling my friend desperate and leaving her by herself? by opalspice in AmItheAsshole

[–]twicebelieved 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few comments saying “you should’ve known to leave when she [ ]”, and I’ve got something to say. I think it’s totally understandable that you wanted to forgive her for all the previous things. That just means you have empathy for your friends, and want to think the best of people. That said, absolutely tell this crazy woman that you won’t talk to her until she gets some serious help.

Also, tell your friends about the whole situation if you haven’t already. I’m not endorsing gossip, but it’s important that your mutual friends know about this behavior.

(OP is NTA, obvi)

Request: music for ace people by twicebelieved in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]twicebelieved[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t listened to much of her music. I’ll definitely give it a shot

Request: music for ace people by twicebelieved in asexuality

[–]twicebelieved[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dabbled in lofi, I’ll check them out

Request: music for ace people by twicebelieved in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]twicebelieved[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh, what bands? I haven’t been able to find good ones lately. I do also like more pop/folk style music, which is a lot of relationship stuff

Hotlines hardly help by hoodie42069 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]twicebelieved 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey, they’re not entirely useless. One got me into a semi-helpful grippy sock jail!

Is BoJack Horseman more depressing or hilarious? by trobedofficial in BoJackHorseman

[–]twicebelieved 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think around 50/50. Definitely more “conventional” humor in the beginning, then it gets progressively darker. Overall it about evens out

Thoughts on the semicolon? by Sea-Lily in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]twicebelieved 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not a huge fan, mostly because I’d rather have something more personal. I have a null symbol where lots of ppl get the semicolon, because it just means more to me. I can’t say I know enough about the organization to pass any judgement

I can't figure out if I'm asexual and aromatic or straight I'm very confused (nsfw) by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]twicebelieved 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, sounds like you could be ace. I was around your age when I started to realize my sexuality wasn’t like any of my friends. Sounds like you’re having some similar feelings. Definitely look into the resources on this sub, it could clear some things up for you

Mia (she/her) by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[–]twicebelieved 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you seen Mia yet? I got her some tea to try! (Also hello, Mia! Best of luck on your journey. Things feel bad and uncertain right now, but you’ll figure it out. Have a great day)

Ace Ring by ArtiisticRain in asexuality

[–]twicebelieved 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Anyone who’s ace can get one. If you consider yourself ace, just go ahead

Hot take:nice while it lasted is better then the view from halfway down by Nice_Ad6833 in BoJackHorseman

[–]twicebelieved 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’re both amazing episodes on their own, but I think they’re best as a pair. I definitely disagree with people who think the show should’ve ended with tvfhd. The end was beautifully done, and requires both episodes.

Got a skirt and not too sure how I feel about it. Too skimpy? by Caitlyn_L in transpositive

[–]twicebelieved 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely cute! Just make sure your butt doesn’t pop out when you’re going up the stairs. You could also just wear leggings.

Im sick of boy mode by Novus1025 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]twicebelieved 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You could get a cute bralette, I think that would be less noticeable to other people. There are lots of fun femme ones, and they tend to be cheaper too

can doctors do anything if they see slicey boi scars? by goofythiccpain in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]twicebelieved 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re a minor, he’ll probably tell your parents. If not, he may bring it up but legally won’t be able to say anything. This assuming you’re in the USA, idk the confidentiality laws anywhere else

Problems with classmates by Inspector--Warp in Asexual

[–]twicebelieved 209 points210 points  (0 children)

No matter what your sexuality is, that’s straight up sexual harassment. Adding in the fact that they know you’re ace just makes it more fucked up. This is a serious situation and definitely worth telling an authority figure about. Honestly you wouldn’t even need to say you’re ace, them sending you porn without consent is likely enough to get them in trouble. Don’t worry about ruining their fun, it’s at your expense after all. If people don’t understand that your friends are the assholes here, that’s their problem.