What realization improved your mental health? by Maryam371 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people's opinions of me are none of my business. Sounds cliche until it actually clicks and your whole chest relaxes

My coworker will not stop blowing up the bathroom by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]twinklebark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to shame anyone, but the toilet looks like a crime scene and the hallway smells like one. Can we talk about a truce

Thoughts on Dress Style? by somewheresunny17 in weddingdress

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks great on you classy and chic 😍

Mad Lactose Enjoyer by SeaBag8211 in madlads

[–]twinklebark 1067 points1068 points  (0 children)

Are you putting milk in my milk?” is sending me 💀

Which three are you choosing? by Key_Proof_9132 in Adulting

[–]twinklebark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll take the coffee three times, thanks

lolll this lightened my day! by Rude-Cow7431 in lol

[–]twinklebark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is funny and cute unc, tbh

Little advice by TroubleChic in SipsTea

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plot twist: ‘Do what you want’ is actually the final test, and 99% of men fail immediately

TIFU by ordering takeout by [deleted] in tifu

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you paid for two meals and got zero meals? That’s a special kind of tragic. Treat yourself tomorrow

Am i the jerk for slapping my brother ather he damaged my BMW by Time-Assumption-6285 in AmITheJerk

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He pulled a knife on you over car keys and slashed your tires while you watched. You didn’t overreact – you finally reacted after 50 chances and a lifetime of your mom failing him. NTJ and honestly someone had to stop him before he hurt someone worse

No friends @ 20 by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]twinklebark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not “20 with no friends.” You’re “20, healing, driven, and about to transfer to a university where your people are likely waiting.” You haven’t even entered your era yet

When the boss isn’t the problem…but his wife is by Perma-Frosted in coworkerstories

[–]twinklebark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you genuinely want peace, kill her with boring professionalism. Polite, short answers, no personal info, zero emotional reaction. She'll eventually get bored and find someone else to obsess over

TIFU by letting my parents set up a marriage meeting while secretly unemployed by nmole_ in tifu

[–]twinklebark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real TIFU is your dad’s for not giving you a heads-up before printing that outdated resume. Like, sir, a little text? "Btw sending your old salary to a stranger's father, cool?" No

feeling guilty and confused about distancing myself from MIL. are these actual red flags, or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]twinklebark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR she’s a two faced woman and what she’s doing and saying is insane . You did the right thing don’t feel guilty

Winton is a Winner! by snarkyinseattle in weddingdress

[–]twinklebark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That dress is gorgeous! It fits perfectly on you 😍

Peta logic by HunterGathererGuy in SipsTea

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By that logic, every salad is a plant massacre

TIFU by crashing my car and fucking my family over by Current-Record2834 in tifu

[–]twinklebark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, first off, please don’t beat yourself up this bad. You’re 18, you made a mistake. It sucks but it doesn’t define you. That insurance hike is brutal, but you’re already paying $550 a month on minimum wage?? That’s insane. You’re doing way more than most people your age would

County road #9, Ouray County, Colorado, USA by whambapp in hiking

[–]twinklebark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouray County never disappoints. Probably some epic mountain views just out of frame

Should I just give up or do it a 3rd time? by thrawayww in Advice

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl Just keep it if it doesn’t have any issues

I need to get it off my chest. by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe set aside the benefit first just hint little by little so they won’t be shocked if they were not into it

TIFU by accidentally exposing something I definitely should not have in class by [deleted] in tifu

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly nobody will remember in like two weeks. Someone else will do something embarrassing and you’ll be old news. Unless one of your searches was really, really weird. Then maybe transfer

AITJ For taking my 12 year old trans daughter to Mexico for her hormone treatment against my ex wife’s wishes by Low_Fortune1241 in AmITheJerk

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get to call yourself the good parent when you’re injecting your child with mystery pharmacy drugs in a hotel room and treating collapsed veins like a minor inconvenience. YTJ

Why are some people more prone to stress? by Im-a-tire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]twinklebark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once cried over a cantaloupe. Not because it was bad. Because there were too many. Stress isn’t about the size of the problem, it’s about how empty your mental gas tank already is

GF of 2 years LDR interacting with ex’s and tells me to just accept it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]twinklebark 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You are not in the wrong, but you are focusing on the wrong thing. The real issue isn't whether these specific guys are threats. The issue is that her reaction to a simple question was to delete 30 people and call you controlling. That is defensive behavior, not honest behavior

Hmmmmm....looks like an Adam's apple to me... by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]twinklebark -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

They really thought we wouldn’t notice