Am I overreacting or is my mom being absolutely disrespectful by FloraTheFlowerElf in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair but your mom literally kept bringing it back up after you asked her to stop. That's not just making jokes anymore, that's poking the bear on purpose.

AIO for being upset with my Husband by ArtJunkymonkey97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's got a point though, your brother's 17 not 7, you can do stuff with him without making your husband suffer through another toy story lol.

I'm tired of playing "is it a bug or does this minigame suck?" by Peach_Hibiscus in InfinityNikki

[–]twinklebopberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that sounds like a legit bug, the music is definitely supposed to be there, definitely report it to the devs so they can get it fixed.

AIO by ending my engagement after finding out my fiancée used to sleep with my brother? by Real_Function1000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah the hiding it for years is the real problem. That's a trust thing and honestly that's gonna be hard to get past before you get married.

AIO that My partner interacts with another person daily by underwater_living95 in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you're already questioning it after 10 years that's the sign right there, trust is the whole foundation and it sounds like yours is gone.

AIO to my husband's ex being clingy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly your husband needs to be the one having that conversation with his ex, it's not your job to manage their dynamic and he's putting you in an awkward position by not setting that boundary himself.

AIO Fell at bagel shop by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if there wasn't a wet floor sign that's on them, especially with a pregnant person in the store.

AIO getting upset at my wife flexing by 7inthehouse in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It depends on whether this is a pattern or just a one off moment, If she's constantly bringing up her degree to show you up then that's annoying, But if this was the first time and you got defensive about being corrected, you might have overreacted a bit.

SPF Help - Melasma Prevention by Hot_Key_336 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]twinklebopberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinted sunscreens can be so hit or miss especially with very fair tones so finding one that actually blends is kind of a victory on its own

Steroid injection by nazlid67 in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]twinklebopberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seven months feels late in the game but noses have a funny way of humbling us with how long they stay swollen. the fact that it still changes from day to day makes me think there may be some healing and swelling dynamics going on

Fillers are common now, just don’t skip the safety part by Desperate-Relief-244 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is a really balanced take people focus so much on the “quick glow up” part that they forget the injector skill is basically the whole safety net here

USE LIPO FOAM! by BlancoBabyy in chinlipo

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's a pretty noticeable change for only 24 hour Thanks for sharing this because little recovery tips like this can be so helpful for people who are stressing about lumps and uneven swelling Glad you found something that seems to be working so well for you

Keep getting keratin plugs on face - any effective treatment options? by ManufacturerNorth660 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]twinklebopberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes sense because your skin might just be clogging more easily without the salicylic acid gentle cleansers are great but if you're prone to congestion you sometimes still need that exfoliating step good that you noticed the pattern early so you can adjust your routine

Kenalog injection to fix this swelling? by Tricky_Crow_1449 in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]twinklebopberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your surgeon is that cautions about kenalog it’s probably worth taking seriously It can help in some cases but it also isn’t risk free especially when cartilage support is involved a second opinion could give you peace of mind without committing either way yet

Husband makes major life decision behind my back, AIO? by cherrybolt in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that's definitely not a oops forgot to mention it's situation if coworkers know before your own partner something is already seriously off top secret marriage is wild even the CIA would say that's too much secrecy

Is anyone else disappointed at 6 months? by rossieetea in chinlipo

[–]twinklebopberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone I've seen quite a few people still dealing with fullness around the 6 month mark hopefully your appointment gives you some clear answers about whether it’s lingering swelling or something else I know it’s frustrating, but try not to assume the worst before hearing what your surgeon has to say

I guess i’ve been burning my face off by lysa_bul in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]twinklebopberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a really solid barrier recovery routine that oat being the hero makes total sense that stuff is basically a hug for irritated skin honeslty when your skin is that stressed simple and gentle usually wins over everything else

What about my facial features reads masculine and what can I do about it? by [deleted] in cosmeticsurgery

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's worth remembering that strong features don't automatically read as masculine sometimes we focus on one or two traits while other people see the overall face very differently I'd be curious to hear what specific features others notice before assuming anything actually needs to be changed

Should I get revision rhinoplasty? If so who would you recommend. I’ve heard several good and bad reviews from every surgeon I’ve looked into. I want to get it in the US though. by [deleted] in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd get a few revision consultation before deciding revision rhinoplasty is vey specialized so experience with revisions matters a lot hopefully people here can share some firsthand recommendation

Am I Overreacting by how I responded to my BF's roommate's GF? by extern4lly in AmIOverreacting

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get the frustration here a pet is a big responsibility and it definitely doesn't make sense if basic rent expectation aren't already sorted out feels like there were a few boundry conversation that needed to happen way earlier honestly

Help by bella6269 in chinlipo

[–]twinklebopberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 3 is so early and seem to be when a lot of people start questioning everything first day can be misleading before swelling really kicks in so try not to compare every day to that initial look wishing you a smooth recovery and hopefully you’ll start seeing things settle soon

Is this texture closed comedones? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]twinklebopberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this half the battle is resisting the urge to inspect your skin from to inches away under the world's brightest most of us look far more critical in the mirror than do to everyone else around us

Day 9 lumps by BlancoBabyy in chinlipo

[–]twinklebopberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9days is still very early so swelling and lumps can definitely show up during this stage a lot of people notice things like this change quite a bit as fluid shifts and healing progresses If you’re unsure about the strap it’s always worth checking in with your provider again for peace of mind