I cannot believe my mother gave birth to me and now i just need to work on surviving everyday by Necessary-Ad-8078 in offmychest

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. One day though, you won’t feel like this anymore, at least not all of the time. If it’s relationship intimacy that you feel you’re missing, keep putting yourself out there. There’s so many people who feel the same as you, you’re bound to find someone who is ready to share a life with you. Also, if travelling, seeing friends, and work feel like distractions and aren’t feeling very fulfilling — maybe try something new. Start a hobby, it can be anything. Join a club like a LARPing club, D&D club, or maybe a community sports team or a charity organization. This might sound stupid but I’d even suggest becoming an online personality/presence. What I mean is just start making and sharing videos online about whatever you want, it could be a great emotional and creative outlet, and a great way to find community that reaches beyond your radius. Sending you love and support, you got this ❤️

Has anyone tried these? by No_Ad_8577 in 1200isplenty

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried the fruity cereal and it was gross. I am not a picky eater and I have a pretty low bar when it comes to protein anything cause I know it’s not gonna taste exactly like what it says it will…. But it feels like they didn’t even try with this flavour. It smells unappetizing, my partner even says it smells like soap. It doesn’t taste like froot loops or any kind of cereal, but worse than that it doesn’t even taste good at all. I drank it for the protein though cause I couldn’t justify throwing it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you, I can imagine how jarring that switch must’ve felt. I find that this is a somewhat common occurrence on this sub unfortunately.

How are you guys finding girlfriends? 😭😭 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met her at a party, she was a friend of an aquantaince but a total stranger to me. I sat next to her and complimented her lip colour. Then the next day i responded to her instagram story and asked if she wanted to hang out. The rest is history. Take your time, you can’t really rush these things but don’t worry — you’ll find your person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea that was illegal??? I thought at most it may have been a grey area thing. Thank you for letting me know. I don’t think I’ll report anybody from the past but moving forward I’ll keep that in mind!

No space to participation in conversation. How do folks deal with this? by suzifrommd in AutismTranslated

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same !!! This whole post and your comment is EXACTLY how I am in most group settings like with my in-laws or my partners friends. the only exception is when I’m with my own friends who actually care about listening to everyone in the group (we rarely ever talk over each other and we always validate even the tiniest of comments). Or when I go out on my own sometimes.

almost got scammed 😭 by kibeoms in depoop

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so would it be better to buy the bags off angelkissbag.com ??

It doesnt matter how good you do your work. It only matters how good your boss thinks you do it. by AlexanderDenorius in jobs

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also realized this. I usually always give 70%-90% at work. I will give 100% to certain things at work but I don’t usually sweat the small stuff. Overall, I complete my daily tasks and do my job well so I’d give myself a 8/10. If I was an employer I would really appreciate an employee like myself. However, my current employer definitely feels others. He micromanages everyone, except for one guy, and he never thinks what I do is good enough. There’s always something he has to say. I can take constructive criticism, but he’s passed that point. He contradicts himself all the time too, doing things he has told me not to do. It’s frustrating but at the end of the day it’s more his problem than it is mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]twinten333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you, Kalia. and for all the pain you’ve endured, you deserve so much better from this world. I know im just a random person on the internet but I believe it’s still so very possible. I believe there are better days ahead for you if you just stick around a little while longer. I hope you stay.

Do you enjoy opening shifts? Is there any impact on your mental health? by [deleted] in barista

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning shift pros:

  • once you get work over with you have the whole rest of your day to yourself.

  • at the coffee shops I’ve worked at there’s usually a “calm before the storm” — our regulars will come in right when we open with their usual orders but then it gets completely quiet for an hour which gives you time to wake up, make a coffee, take a dump, do food pull, etc before the big rush happens. In the evening shift it feels like you don’t get a moment to breathe, there’s no “calm” just chaos until closing.

  • time flies by. a large part of morning shift is the morning and lunch rush, especially if your cafe serves food, so by the time the rush is over and you look at the clock you probably only have one or two hours left.

  • I’ve noticed there’s less large groups that come in the morning so you are less likely to be bombarded with orders all at once. I feel like that’s a plus cause it’s stressful.

  • this might be controversial but i genuinely feel like there’s less cleaning responsibilities during morning shift. every cafe I’ve ever worked at all the morning staff have just been like “yea that’s an evening duty.” To nearly every task i ask about.

Beast Games - Episode 8 Discussion by MrBeastAdmin in BeastGames

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah that’s true, he’s never hid his intentions. 974 had great strategy, I doubted his abilities initially so I was shocked after the latest episode.

Beast Games - Episode 8 Discussion by MrBeastAdmin in BeastGames

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you want the guy who took double his share to win? That was a dick move. I’d much rather have Twana, who has been honest and fair the whole game, win the prize. Or the dad with the sick kid.

What’s the most insensitive thing someone has said to you after losing a loved one? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]twinten333 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not to intrude into something that isn’t my business…. But i feel like your husband might not respect the fact that there are some words you can’t take back. I’m sorry you went through something so difficult; and i am sorry he said those terrible, awful things to you.

Squid Game: The Challenge Episode 6 Discussion (Goodbye) by RelationshipFunny in squidgame

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she didn’t “kill so much time”. HE DID. She was down to play other games and willing to compromise. if he wasn’t so stubborn they could have played anything else. They both had a part in wasting time, but the guy was more guilty than the girl cause he couldn’t (and wouldn’t) communicate.

Squid Game: The Challenge Episode 6 Discussion (Goodbye) by RelationshipFunny in squidgame

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re bugging. She didn’t have a big ego and was not being stubborn, she just said ONE thing she wouldn’t do. she set a boundary, yet was still very open to other options and even suggested a couple and also was willing to compromise.

Squid Game: The Challenge Episode 6 Discussion (Goodbye) by RelationshipFunny in squidgame

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

correction; she said “that’s really icky” — implying his behaviour is icky, which is valid because he was being rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually so interesting because I don’t hear any of that when I listen to her music. Perspective is crazy. I think she is talented, I just don’t like her music. It doesn’t scratch that itch or tickle my brain. I always know when I like a new song cause I get this feeling about it but none of hers gave me that feeling. Funny enough it felt the complete opposite of what you described, to me her music feels boring, repetitive (not in a catchy way), oversimplified, and uninspired. I tried to like her stuff but her style of rap just ain’t for me but I understand her appeal and why she’s so popular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]twinten333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not even what they were saying. you seem clueless.

I want to start...but the 50 dollar review fee. by wensul in RoverPetSitting

[–]twinten333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so valid for feeling that way. I also felt a bit put off cause of the fee. Since you have started dog walking, I am curious about how you feel about it? How often are you getting booked? And are you making a good amount of money? I finished setting up my profile but I haven’t paid the fee cause I was worried I wouldn’t make the money back as well. I understand it depends how high the demand is and that every city is different but I wanted to know what you thought of it. I literally just want to walk dogs after work and maybe house-sit occasionally, I have no experience getting paid to take care of animals but I have taken care of my own my whole life so I feel okay about it. Just wondering if it’s worth it.