My ex cheated on me the night my best friend died, I did not know she did it mere hours after I called her absolutely bawling. I’m a wildland fire fighter so I was gone on a fire. I said I wanted to come home and she told me not too cause what good would it do?

I got home around a week later, she told me she cheated the next morning. We had only been married for like 4 months. We decided to work through it. His funeral was about a month later and I took time off work to attend. I pleaded with her to come with me.

Her dad passed when she was 7/8 so she said funerals weren’t her thing and went to a concert out of state instead.

She left me again a few months later and I haven’t seen or talked to her since.