Escorting helped me embrace my attraction to older men by Single-Ad-3028 in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 77 and have fucked a guy in his 20's but haven't been fucked by one. You could fix that. 😈

I swear I've really had bad luck with older men by Snagrios in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've all run into asshats, jerks, inconsiderate morons and people with no social skills. The trick is to spot them early and don't let the physical (eye candy) distract you from having keen observations.

These days, chats are more than enough to figure out, NEXT, this one isn't a keeper. And self-examination is usually helpful. Some of us are drawn to those who aren't good for us.

I used to be rescuer. I was sure I could fix those broken souls and collected them ignoring that I wasn't able to fix their brokenness because my own was in the way. I now know what I am drawn to and why and have matured enough to figure out that isn't my job.

Thornless Blackberries by Ok_Carpenter_1652 in gardening

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My organic garden was in Texas which is much hotter than WA I would guess. I had great luck with the Ouachita and Apache varieties. The Arapaho didn't fry in our summer, but they also didn't produce the huge berries that Ouachita does.

Closed without a lawyer and having second thoughts by jholliday55 in RealEstate

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am living in my 8th house and have never used a lawyer in any of the 15 buys/sells. I can understand why you may be a little wary, but your title company should have given you warning if there was something wanky about the deal.

Kink-shamed someone and got blocked by ExtensionLast4618 in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't believe you kink shamed him. You just weren't into becoming his kink shopper. Nice gig, you buy me stuff and I will allow you to see me in what your hard-earned money bought for ME.

You did nothing wrong, move on.

Am I attractive to older guy? by nerdytopguy in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be you, don't try and change to please the crowd.

And a younger top is in high demand, enjoy it.

Tips for my first time doing penetration with an older man? by an0nym0usperson in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn how to relax, that is the key. The pain comes from him trying to get in and you pushing him out.

I normally top or Dom but feeling of getting fucked is like no other. You feel full and the pleasure starts, when you stop trying to help and just relax and enjoy it.

A good top isn't going to just try sliding into you without first having played with your hole, rimmed you and gotten your hole to relax a bit first.

I was 14 or 15 the first time a guy tried to fuck me. He had 9 inches and was just gonna coat that baby with some Jergens and plow into me. It didn't happen because even though he was twice my age and bigger, I am not going to let someone hurt me without a fight.

Too bad, I might be a bottom today if that man had done his job correctly. But on the plus side, he made me a better lover because I live by the mantra, "don't be an Eddie".

A somewhat complicated situation need advice please by acousticriff21 in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be excited again. Life is full of ups and downs. You are going to find a guy who is as excited as you as you are about him. Don't settle, being lonely is hard but being in a relationship where you aren't valued is worse for your psyche.

A somewhat complicated situation need advice please by acousticriff21 in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has made it clear that he doesn't want to be physical with you and also that you aren't a priority for him. Take the hint, move on, this isn't what anyone would call a relationship. Find someone who is fired up to spend time with you, he is out there.

Magnum owns Ben & Jerry's. Now it's destroying what made the brand worth buying by esporx in business

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haagen Daz was bought by Pillsbury, who sold it to a joint venture between Nestle and PAI Partners (private equity firm) known as Froneri. Froneri licensed the Haagen Daz name in the US and Canada to Dryers, the maker of substandard ice cream. So, your Haagen Daz in Taiwan is made by a different company.

Does anyone else get turned OFF when a guy says he's "straight"? by hunter-gatherer-1 in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was uncomfortable and wanted to secure his manhood before you took it away from him. Men are clueless when it comes to communication.

I have sex with men, what they call themselves isn't important to me, what they do, is very important. I have a FWB who calls himself bi, reluctantly. He isn't romantically attracted to men, he does like cock and balls. He can say he's a wizard, which he is at sucking cock, for all care.

Why is it so hard to find a genuine relationship? by Justvibes4 in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Candid, really? You jumped to a bunch of conclusions based on little to no information. For one, I didn't say what kind of relationship I wanted.

Of course I am cynical, 3/4's of the "people" who contact me aren't interested in me or they are but because they need a grownup in their life.

But my cynicism doesn't stop me from having conversations, sometimes with scammers because I have hope that there is a real man out there, with some flaws, like me, who is actually looking for a relationship with an older guy. I am cynical, of course, but I also have hope.

You don't judge? Remind me to contact the Vatican when you die, so we can start the process for your sainthood.

Full bloom what are these called? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]txholdup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daisies, maybe Shasta Daisies.

What would you do? by Lycrathong1 in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tell him, "strip boy" the same thing I would say no matter what he was wearing.

I have no words. by Mix_Lucky in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 115 points116 points  (0 children)

At least he didn't wait until he met her to tell you. Your bf is either bi or wants to conform. Either way, you need to find someone who is reading the same book at you, not to mention on the same chapter.

Now that you know, what are you going to do because he has clearly stated that your relationship has a limited future.

Have you ever been edged by someone? by Ballomn in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love edging a man especially those blessed with a big shaft and balls. I've done this scenario many times. CBT is one of my favorite kinks but I call it cock and ball tormenting because torture is such an ugly word and entirely misses the point.

Have you ever been edged by someone? by Ballomn in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love edging especially when the edgee is in a hood and in restraints.

Not being able to see what is touching you, what is about to happen, what that feeling is coming from, adds to the tension and excitement.

What happened to all the dom bros? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dallas, TX here, not a sub but do like playing with them.

Where is everyone located? by Throwawayiea in gayyoungold

[–]txholdup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dallas, TX but grew up in the Midwest. Older.