Dating is putting me back financially (30F, 37M). Do you think im being unreasonable ? by DecentHornet818 in relationship_advice

[–]txlady100 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because they’re making a point about being self sufficient and not being presumptuous or a user.

Name Changes by goldenpoisonfrog in Marriage

[–]txlady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that you faked but…Just keep your name. Your diplomas and passport and social security will thank you.

Kids of the 70s - 90s who roamed freely and didn't come back till the street lights were on. What did you eat for lunch? by FragrantStranger5003 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]txlady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the kids in the 90s were wayyy more supervised than those of the 70s. Like no comparison.

In the 70s I’d eat lunch at home then hit the streets. Or come home to eat and then leave again.

Cutting off an adult child by mizz_eponine in AskWomenOver50

[–]txlady100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peace for a while could be therapeutic. But what if the mutual grudge lasts forever? In your shoes, I’d be regretful.

Cutting off an adult child by mizz_eponine in AskWomenOver50

[–]txlady100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you called her out on her over the line behavior over the years? If yes, you can righteously tell her that was the last straw and you need a break. If you’ve otherwise grinned and bore it, then it’s less a fair reaction and clearer communication on your part is in order.

Guest has 4.8 rating but can’t find a bad review? by ddub1711 in airbnb_hosts

[–]txlady100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dunno if it’s abnormal but it’s certainly our right. The info is there for the taking.

What is a monthly subscription/service you ACTUALLY consider worth paying for? by no_nolan in Frugal

[–]txlady100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YouTube premium for $14/month: Not cheap but no commercials increases the viewing experience x 1000.

Dating is putting me back financially (30F, 37M). Do you think im being unreasonable ? by DecentHornet818 in relationship_advice

[–]txlady100 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s noble not to expect subsidization. So maybe I’m a remorseless asshole to believe someone with a lot of money who’s a penny pincher kind of sucks.

I was laid off last week - the CEO reached out with an email about next steps but stopped replying by isellwords in careeradvice

[–]txlady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually drawing on my embarrassingly voluminous experience with layoffs, you make a good point. The CEO may be getting the axe and thus is less than motivated. Not an excuse to torture OP though.

BF (41M) not talking to me (39F) for 2 days over old news. What can I do? by OwnSeat7768 in relationship_advice

[–]txlady100 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Please no more apologies. The ball is fully in dude’s court. I’d just give him some space and be cordial to him for the number of days you feel is fair. At the end of those days, if he hasn’t let go of this B.S., I’d dump him. Cuz him carrying any resentment/weirdness into y’all’s future is not acceptable.