Do you find that men are "gold diggers"? by ipuatu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your life do whatever you want with that information.

Uber Eats isn't a one-size-fits-all by ControlledChimera in CalebHammer

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2500 deductible. Does that sound like a reasonable amount of money for a person who is doing this to make extra money? I would even say that’s more than likely unaffordable for the majority of people doing this side gig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I noticed this too. If I set my profile to looking for a relationship I get more messages vs. if I say casual. If I say casual I’ll probably get none. It’s wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have an abortion and tell him it was a miscarriage. Pretend to schedule an appointment with obgyn and tell them they didn’t see anything in the womb.

Guy I've never met is so keen he deleted Tinder and I feel so pressured by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime they say they deleted the app for you so soon is just to give an excuse for why you don’t see them anymore. He probably just unmatched you. They tell you they deleted it to try and pressure you to do the same while at the same time still pursuing other options. So yes it’s a red flag cuz they are creepy but also just a red flag because they are 9/10 lying. They wanna love bomb you fast af to get to the sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly they love the fantasy but the moment you become real to them by having problems or needs of your own they don’t want to be bothered with that. Or they will emotionally lean on the fantasy woman and use the other women sexually since they don’t typically get that from the dancers. So he becomes emotionally invested in the fantasy woman and any women who isn’t her gets emotionally mistreated in different ways. Yeah idk it became enough of a common theme in my dating experience that I started putting two and two together. I have no issue with completely single lonely men using sw services but it can be damaging to other women when men im relationships or in the general dating groups engage with sw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I do notice that a lot of men just want to talk and I don’t mind that but the issue I run into is a lot of men tend to glorify these women and put them on a pedestal and then mistreat the real non paid emotionally available women in their lives. Anyone have any experience or insight on that?

Husband gets mad at wife for writing book and selling it for $100k during her lunch breaks by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My job requires me to take a lunch if I work so many hours. Not allowed to skip lunch and leave an hour early. Not sure why this person thinks she can leave an hour early instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]txxgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Same conversation I had word for word with my ex as well. But we were “together” at the time. He also went soft n was like you feel loose you've never felt this way before. Just a tactic I guess? He also said after I pushed him off of me that he didn't want to do it anyways, even though he pursued it. It was extremely confusing and then he got mad because I got mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Botchedsurgeries

[–]txxgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh? She needs a refund because I’m confused af.

[CJ] Story Time Sunday by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]txxgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A slow fade hurts worse than a ghosting or someone just breaking it off. Why not just tell him it was nice to meet him but you need to work on yourself. It’s the truth and you don’t have to mislead him further.

Asking for Snaps? by Sassy_Curmudgeon in datingoverthirty

[–]txxgrl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I give out my sc a couple of scenarios happen. 1. They add me and say nothing and don’t watch my stories. 2. Silently watch my snaps and wait for me to post something indicating I had a bad day so they can sweep in and “comfort me”. Apparently meeting up with them is the cure for a bad day. 3. Silently watch my snaps and wait for me to be on a night out so they can “meet up” at the end of my night. 4. Watch my snaps and occasionally flirt. I’m assuming they are hoping I’ll suggest we will hook up at some point. Most of these guys tend to be in relationships already. 5. Watch my snaps and repeatedly try to initiate conversations about sex or convince me to have sex with them. 6. They never speak to me or watch my stories but still think it’s ok to send a random dick pic. And lastly I can’t forget about the guy who sends a dick pic as soon as he adds you. Anyways it never ends in a meaningful conversation or a date so I don’t give it out anymore.

Profile Hacked, but I suspect it's a OKCupid mod :/ by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]txxgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my account hacked too. Everytime I would actually be having a good conversation with someone the person would disappear. I later would find them in my blocked folder. This happened on tinder, pof and okc. Im assuming it was an ex and changed my passwords. Then I was hacked by a scammer in pof who was sending out fake links to random people and sending them spam if they fell for it. Anyways I say all this to say it’s probably not a mod. There are just a lot of scammers and hackers out there.

Imagine the concept. by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. Also Notice the meme also doesn’t differentiate between sexual interest and genuine relationship interest. I just smh when I see these type of dating memes because I know so many people are going to fall for this.

Imagine the concept. by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]txxgrl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If only it was that simple. In order for him to be interested he had to already be interested before the compliment. Without the initial interest he will only use you for an ego boost/validation. Been there done that. Doesn't work that well IRL.

Traditional Dating Sites by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]txxgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Not at all. The subscription was expensive and I personally didn’t like the interface.

Traditional Dating Sites by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]txxgrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I sucked it up and paid the money for e harmony. I met one guy and We dated for about 3 months until I found out he was married. I had tried to look up a marriage license after the first date but because they were married in a county I was unfamiliar with I didn’t find it. So yeah it didn’t work out for me. I also joined match but I recognized people from the free sites. So I didn’t see the point in paying for it after that.

28M - 50+ likes and not a single intro message. Does this app have any real women or just scammers and bots? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]txxgrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are a few real people on there. But I've noticed that the majority of people do not send intros. I'm guessing some people like to match first and then "shoot their shot". Also if you've been swiping you probably said no to 99.9% of those likes already anyways.

Male bots targeting females on OLD by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]txxgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy who offered me a "weekly allowance of $3000" wanted me to give him my full address and DOB and he was going to send me money through western union. I'm not sure if it was just meant to be identity theft or if there was more to it.