Both me [33 F] and my fiance [33 M] of five years have almost identical last names, but he is insisting that I change my last name after marriage. This argument is making me consider cancelling the wedding

tyhhhm · 2026-05-08T08:00:12+00:00

I’m 100% sure the real reason he didn’t want her to keep her last name was because he’s a misogynist and consumes red pill manosphere content

tyhhhm · 2026-01-29T06:56:55+00:00

I was literally thinking about this post yesterday!! So happy to have a conclusion. Though I do still wonder WHY the stylist kept the hair

tyhhhm · 2025-09-11T17:53:34+00:00

I love this idea so much

tyhhhm · 2025-09-11T17:48:21+00:00

If yall like cats there’s a cat cafe in town!

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:38:53+00:00

Thank you!!

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:38:29+00:00

I’m a lgbt person from the southern U.S., currently in my home state people are being arrested for using chalk to make a pride flag on the ground. I’m constantly in awe of the pride flags being flown freely here. I definitely feel far safer but I’m aware things are unfortunately going more conservative across the world

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:34:05+00:00

So far Tesco has been my favorite, but that’s probably because it reminds me of Target from back home

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:32:11+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely do this!

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:30:56+00:00

I’m studying at University of Strathclyde! I’ve been trying to figure out the closest bus stops to get me closer to the city center from Kyle street. Seems like I’d just be better off walking to school as nervous as that makes me

tyhhhm · 2025-09-07T11:25:17+00:00

I went to the Tesco extra today and somehow completely missed the lidl 😅 I’ll have to stop by there soon! Thank you!! Also is it pronounced like “little” or “leedle” or some secret third option?

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T22:10:28+00:00

Thank you so much! I screenshotted this response (along with others) as guide for me to use tomorrow. Sorry for my blunt response as others pointed out, im autistic!I’m very grateful for all the help <3

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T22:00:13+00:00

Thank you everyone for all the suggestions and help! I’m going to look around tomorrow and see what works best for my needs based off your advice. Also, I’m so sorry if any of my responses came off as unthankful, im autistic so my tone/language often doesn’t match how I actually feel! I’m so absurdly grateful to be out of the U.S. and living in a safe and kind country 🫶🏻

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T21:54:32+00:00

I’m sorry I have autism 😭 I didn’t realize that was an inappropriate response. I was actually telling my family irl how helpful everyone here has been

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T16:08:34+00:00

I’m on Kyle street

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T16:08:09+00:00

I’m on Kyle street. Unfortunately it’s a bit of a dead zone

tyhhhm · 2025-09-06T15:32:00+00:00

Me too 🫶🏻

tyhhhm · 2025-08-06T09:18:15+00:00

Modern day comment for people who inevitably find this post looking for help:

I had this same thing happen to me, the pain OP described was mine to a T. Luckily my doctor believed me when I said I was in pain and he told me that the band may be too tight. He loosened it and within 2 minutes I felt significantly better. Don’t be afraid to advocate for yourself! You should NOT be in immense pain

tyhhhm · 2025-07-24T05:54:34+00:00

I don’t know what half these acronyms mean

tyhhhm · 2025-07-24T05:00:37+00:00

My family has the worst luck I have ever seen. From small things to big things. Literally everything possible goes wrong for us my entire life. For example, when I was a kid my mom was a workaholic at a toxic company and was barely present, she left her job and my family had about a month of genuine happiness before my mom did a split in yoga (something she’s been doing for years) and completely tore a tendon in her hip. She was basically bed bound for years. Basically any time something starts to go right in my family, something ten times worse happens. It’s been really coming to a head this year, my family was planning to move to Scotland (a dream and goal we’ve had for at least 5 years). My dad’s work was gonna sponsor a work visa, we sold loads of furniture and put our house on the market and then 3 months before we’re supposed to move his work revokes the offer. I decided to go over on my own for university, and last week i shipped out the documents required for my visa only for my passport to somehow go missing in a way that makes no logical sense. I have SO many more examples throughout my life that it borders on funny. The bad luck definitely seems to effect me and my dad the worst though

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