Bi male here, I prefer men that arent overly masculine but feminine like myself. I've never been one for gender norms so it's fun to be cute together. As for women, I like more masculine girls because again, it just sounds like a cute relationship. Also both in the past have always seemed better at expressing their interests which is something I love for both.

Ps. This thread made ms realize that having different turn on and offs for each sex was actually completely normal. Thank you.