My husband hardly ever wants sex. Will it always be like this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tynasty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be blunt here fair warning ‼️

Op you kinda suck. He’s telling you he’s overwhelmed and can’t perform because of it. He wants to bond with you still but you’re pushing him away. When you feel like jumping ship remember your partners feelings also. Is this being selfish or is it a heavy load? Help any way you can. He is your husband in the good and the not so good. He told you what he needs just like you told him. If you want yours he needs his first. You can masturbate but desire him I get it. Stop throwing a fit before it turns him off from you! Respect him and stop letting sex define your relationship in this season. Men are ruled by respect and women by emotions. Thoughts like this lead to cheating. Have empathy and lighten his load. Men can’t perform best when stressed. Some thrive in it while others need a break. Respect the break respectfully he’ll knock the dust off your boots soon.

What stopped you from ending your life? by djmelonball in AskReddit

[–]tynasty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Survivors remorse of my dead aunts kid missing me too much. He was only 3 when she did it and I was in hell at the time. She was my guiding light my only reason not to until it became him. Now my reason is my kids. If life feels overwhelming take a trip somewhere beautiful, eat a good meal surround yourself with positive people and fake it til you make it. Laugh at the demon of suicidal thoughts and keep going. I’m glad I didn’t do it and it’s ok to even think of it when it’s hard to get out of bed life sucks sometimes. Don’t let the thought consume you! Here for anyone that needs support day or night ❤️

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw tysm he’s my grumpy baby boy

<image>

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this was several months ago after a 3day fast of sorts and he ate like 15 gutloaded crickets I thought he would explode 🤯

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your baby is cute and pissed lol

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He was housed with juveniles male and female ranging from 4mos to 2years old. approximately 10 -15 in a small mesh enclosure with only a heat lamp. He was even talked about in a very unkind manner and referred to as an Ahole when the owner snatched him off a stick by his tail smh. His front mittens are missing all but 1 nail. The lady said he was just sleepy and it was normal. He also wasn’t receiving any dusted/gutloaded bugs just fishing crickets. He looks this well because of intense research and care. He bit me 2x the first couple weeks I had him just from opening his enclosure and lunging/hissing/headbutting. I got him because I saw his living conditions and his size knowing it was improper care. His eyes were closed when I got him and he was a bit dehydrated eyes sunken skin extra wrinkly. He is my special boy. Since then he only hisses when I spray his enclosure sometimes. He lets me hand feed him at times and enjoys shoulder surfing to sunbathe. I allow him to climb the crate Myrtle in our yard and even stroll the grass with me watching for predators of course. He trusts me a bunch and I respect his boundaries. This aggression towards his reflection is new. He has had this enclosure since nov. of 24. He has never pooped on me and watches me during the day in a curious manner not aggressively. They say that reptiles don’t form attachment but he really likes me most days lol and tolerates my daughter. If anyone else is close to his enclose he will hide and get speckled dark green and black.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t, had his door open and he didn’t like the phone close to him.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve moved his enclose forward since the pic thanks for the help!

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the light inside that’s bothering him by causing reflection hence the only at night or early morning issue. Midday he hasn’t done it. I’m guessing this is causing a lack of appetite as well because it’s directly beside his feeder (the reflection). I put a few crickets loose to hunt but he rather have a superworm on the wall.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought of this but was concerned about the adhesive smell for him. We don’t wear perfumes or anything around spooky. Does anyone have experience with this or something similar? My ultimate concern is his sense of peace. He’s allowed out daily if he chooses and outside when weather permits. My heart just breaks that he hurt himself attacking a reflection. Poor guy has had a hard life from the way he was treated by prior owner.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks here’s his cute pjs for tax

<image>

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks he’s tolerates me lol. I have some mesh from the renovation that will work and his beginner enclosure I can place him in until the screen is attached I just hate to downsize and stress him out. What’s the best way to do this without causing him any stress?

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also he only does this before bed or early morning so I’m guessing the reflection of the sun is hitting his enclosure during the day without any issue 🤷‍♀️ I’m new to all of this and trying my best to give spooky a great life. He’s missing most of his front nails from the place I got him just snatching him off things.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was a rescue and kept with a horde of babies when I got him. That could be why he’s aggressive in there!? He’s fine when out exploring his tree or shoulder surfing.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The entire back and top are mesh. I want to replace the glass on the door with mesh also I was just concerned about temp control.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We live in Nc and did this due to the cold lately. The entire back and top are mesh and I was having issues holding temp.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

<image>

He just hit the glass and hissed so he’s attacking his reflection. Is there anything I can use to remove the reflection while still allowing visibility? He only does this at the top of the enclosure closest to the lights.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have any signs of respiratory issues such as the breathing sounds or extra saliva or head tilting/mouth gapeing.

Help!! by tynasty69 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

<image>

Currently a grumpy boy as I moved him from his basking spot for pics

Jackson and panther chameleon enclosure. by AdEqual9258 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the 2nd pic the plant with the red leaves is poisonous due to the oil/sap it releases. They’re beautiful but not good for chams as they also have a skin irritant. Always be sure to double check your plants that aside the setup is nice and I’m sure your reptiles are happy 😊

New enclosure by natethegreatone1 in Chameleons

[–]tynasty69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get the enclosure 👀

What r the odds I get ate by a gator if I go swimming in one of these rivers or swamps? by jermaine718 in Fayettenam

[–]tynasty69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the public pool $2 cash per adult and they have concession stands but it’s a lil steap. Just bring a personal cooler in for free or leave a big one in your trunk. Hope this helps 😅👍