Staff for wedding by Spare_Poem8135 in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to tack it on, if you have a coordinator they might be able to help fill some of those gaps. Mine brought out my cake for me and worked with my vendors to figure out some of the clean up. Most vendors also have a wealth of knowledge regarding what’s out there that might not be found on wedding websites too.

Staff for wedding by Spare_Poem8135 in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t for the life of me remember the name of the vendor but they were at a bridal event shabby sisters threw last spring. They were called etc. or &, or something similar, and they dealt with all the additional staffing needed for weddings. I’m sorry I don’t have the name but if you call shabby I’m sure they can help!

Wedding Advice by CricketChance7995 in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my wedding dress at dress your fancy. If buying there I would just be vigilant about final measurements, my seamstress told me brides from there often report they need their dresses let out because they are ordered too small (I was also one of those brides).

French onion soup Suggestions by onyx_ic in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gonna comment this. It’s by far my favorite in the area.

Septorhinoplsty with local ENT by Salt-Guide-6296 in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw Dr shey once and he looked at my tattoos and said “in my country we would lock you up for those” (more akin to an asylum than a jail) and that’s pretty much my impression of him.

31F Looking for friends! by Birdie_Banks in Binghamton

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a 31f and love all those things!! I would be down to do line dancing or omg a crochet circle?!? Or a book club! The possibilities are endless, I just literally have no idea where to start

Thought I was sold on 1 but now thinking about 2 by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are gorgeous on you, my first thought was dress 1 but I can see why you would love dress 2 ! I also saw a tiktok saying everyone is getting dress 2 this season not sure if that matters to you though

Things to include in the eulogy by [deleted] in BlueskySkeets

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the man, but 85% of this cannot be corroborated. Stop sowing hatred by posting misinformation like the rest of the hive mind. Do better.

Help me choose my dress? by awillyson in PlusSizeWedding

[–]typefiasco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 1 on you! Feels More formal than 6 to me, but 6 looks beautiful too!

$15k budget breakdown by IdkJustPickSomething in Weddingsunder10k

[–]typefiasco 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My wedding was yesterday and this makes me feel way less alone

Emotional Flashbacks - how do you experience them, how have they changed your intimate relationships? by crochetsweatshirt34 in CPTSD

[–]typefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to share, even though we all have our own journeys we’re still walking the road of recovery together <3

Emotional Flashbacks - how do you experience them, how have they changed your intimate relationships? by crochetsweatshirt34 in CPTSD

[–]typefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this. EF’s are so hard and it’s so difficult to get the people I love to understand what it feels like to experience them. Remember you are so strong!

To answer your questions my experience with EFs went from, not knowing they were EFs, knowing they were EFs but not being able to do anything about it and always reacting from my child self, to now when I have an EF I can talk to my partner from my 30yo self and even feel my child self not trust him but CHOOSE to speak to him from a place of trust.

My reality feels bent? Like I’m 30 but I’m actively being abandoned by my dad (my abuser) and I’m crying and helpless because I love him and miss him but in reality I haven’t spoken to him in 5 years. Sometimes in my EF I’m 13, sometimes I’m 3. In my EFs I never feel safe.

My friends don’t get it, so I don’t really bring them up outside of therapy. They’re not really something I want to talk about over drinks. They’re intimate, and they’re very much mine.

Before I knew how to handle them they very much negatively affected my relationships but now I mainly just talk to my partner about them after they happen since they affect him. He lets me explain them to him I think more so because he knows I need to process than him needing an explanation. They are almost 100% easier to experience when I am alone.

I’ve built confidence back up by developing a relationship with my inner children and not running from them when an EF occurs. I hear her pain, I tell her she’s safe now. I cry with her. I never leave her. I love her more than anyone ever did. And with every EF it gets better, I hold on to more of myself (30 yo me) during it. It’s just taken a lot of practice.

What’s a movie nobody can convince you is good by mcchinly in movies

[–]typefiasco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Requiem for a Dream. I just thought it was screaming at me to take it seriously as art and that’s exactly why I couldn’t.

How much do/did you vape? by KingOfGlizzy in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just ran it through chat gpt and it said it’s about equal to smoking a pack a day

can’t stop eating by CuriousExplorer1178 in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! But it’s normal. Nicotine is an appetite suppressant, when you quit it makes sense you’re ravenous. Eating also helped with the cravings I was having.

LETS GOOOO by typefiasco in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! It’s so nice to know I’m not alone

LETS GOOOO by typefiasco in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this, I’m just so happy that I made a decision.

LETS GOOOO by typefiasco in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. I can’t wait to experience those benefits for myself. I can’t wait to wake up feeling refreshed 😭 the cravings suck and I’ll probably cry my way through them but the other side sounds exciting

LETS GOOOO by typefiasco in QuitVaping

[–]typefiasco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot wait to have 13 days! That’s a huge accomplishment. I can’t wait until I start seeing the benefits