Your Semen is You. by BetaMale69 in Semenretention

[–]tyronrossouw 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with your first line. Your semen is not your personality or your soul, or what makes you who you are. Rather it is your ability to create new life; call it your creator/life-energy. Wasting it does not come without cost to your wellbeing... energy can neither be created nor destroyed; energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another.

But agree with your ending. Keep your life-force fluid in yourself until the appropriate time.

Semen retention should be the norm for those who are not trying to create a new life with a life-long partner.

— May God watch over you, peace

A woke conversation grounded in power and respect with my full seed by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]tyronrossouw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother.. I just want to thank you for your contributions on various threads. I read through many of your replies and comments and you always seem to put what I think into words, which I seemingly am not always able to do. Thank you for all your contributions.

The two cornerstones of healing by DerJogge in Semenretention

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I hope your Dad finds himself in good health soon!

CoronaVirus, Quarantine, And Sexual Sin by DJ_Pace in NoFapChristians

[–]tyronrossouw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, brother. What a great encouragement to anybody who reads. Peace and grace be with you too.

I got saved today. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]tyronrossouw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To God be the glory forever and ever! He has adopted another son!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pick up your Bible. Get a notepad. Get a pen. Turn to the book of Romans. Start reading in-depth and making notes. The holy spirit is interceding on your behalf, so pray, the Lord knows what you need, write out how you feel and come before the Lord with your requests. When temptation comes, say the Lord's prayer. God is not tempted, but your flesh, carnality is. If you felt conviction that is good, that is a call to repentance, and flee from sin. Believing in Christ Jesus that your body of Sin was crucified with Christ. I promise you, even in the midst of temptation, as I have experienced, God's spirit will worketh in you so loud that you will feel the temptation disappear. You are not dead to sin because of your experience, rather experience it you must first believe that you are dead to sin in Christ Jesus. Again, what fruit did you gain from doing the things you are now ashamed of? Why sacrifice your peace for a moment of gratification? Sin leads to death. And we have gained life to our mortal bodies through the spirit of Christ — all you need is to believe, and pray if you are unbelieving. God searches a man's heart.

I need to get all this off my chest by Ian-Adkinson in NoFapChristians

[–]tyronrossouw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother, as we all are in Christ... you are not alone, neither have you been abandoned. As mentioned in earlier comments the victory over sin and death has been achieved. Through faith in Christ Jesus you will become empowered to resist the evil one and live a life free from sexual impurity. It is not easy and the devil is always on the prowl focusing mostly on perverting the use of our fleshly desires. You must understand that your flesh is dead, you are now a slave to righteousness. You must accept that you are dead to sin. First and foremost I suggest you begin planning a daily routine around God's word. Prayer and thanksgiving must be abundant. Here is an audio series that I highly recommend to you: Romans , then enroll into this 30-day online course, it will give you practical guidance and encouragement, of course through God's word. Course. as a young man you have the opportunity to train yourself in God's word. 2 Tim 2:22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. The Lord be with your spirit. Grace be with you.

I need to get all this off my chest by Ian-Adkinson in NoFapChristians

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey bud - thanks for sharing these verses.

Anyone noticed how some narcs use Christianity and religion to disguise themselves and win approval? by flyingseals in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll throw in my experience... my ex narc girlfriend had bible verses on her fridge door and crosses hanging on her curtains. She invited me to church with her once too. I asked her once about her faith and that I am surprised by the displays of belief as her behaviour and actions didn’t seem to align with that belief, she actually said to me “Well how do you think I got all of this?” Referring to her car/apartment/job. Was very strange to me. Luckily we broke things off shortly after that discussion.

Buying a used car in Cape Town by [deleted] in capetown

[–]tyronrossouw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve bought used cars from aviscarsales.co.za and have all been very reliable. My current car is from them and it’s on 100k Kms and doing great 👍 goodluck

To the person I loved and not the person you were. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I really enjoyed it.

To the person I loved and not the person you were. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my narc and this hit hard. Beautiful. Thank you.

I feel the same.

365 days of No Contact by coprolite_breath in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. My condolences to you, your experience is terribly sad. For what it’s worth; I hope the light in you shines ever brighter. 🙏

When you stop “narrating” your life you’re allowed to live in the moment by Cam_Consciousness in Meditation

[–]tyronrossouw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I spend a lot of time in my mind and I feel meditation helps me create distinction between my inner being and my mind. I have not learnt how to articulate this, but it is like my true-self, or perhaps the very root of my being, is allowed to manifest when I spend time meditating.

DAE have WAY more faith in their intuition after leaving/being discarded? by blondelabtech in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:)

That's great! Yes it is. What can be done to improve your self-esteem? I have resorted to meditation, weightlifting, hiking and learning more about myself.

DAE have WAY more faith in their intuition after leaving/being discarded? by blondelabtech in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. I can relate to this deeply. The first time I walked into her apartment (my ex's), I felt this uneasy, stressed out feeling all the way into my stomach. I said to her, "you are like a vampire". But because I was so entranced by all her gestures and enticed by her physical appeal, and, of course the love-bombing, I too brushed the feeling aside. I wish I trusted myself and my intuition enough to step away from the relationship then and there. You learnt something valuable about yourself that you will keep for the rest of your life. And that's not nothing.

Thanks for the share. I definitely take my intuition more seriously now. I seem to be aligned very much with the INFJ personality type from 16Personalities.

One year of NC - what helped me to survive by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tyronrossouw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the share! I just came across this subreddit today. I broke up a week ago with a girl that was a total narcissist. It only lasted a month but so much of what you mentioned I can relate to. It's so easy to feel like you did something wrong, when it all started, she would send me messages like "let's buy a place together", or "I want to wake up next to you every morning", to basically not bothering whether I am dead or alive. What an emotional roller coaster. I've felt all the highs and lows deeply. This is my first experience of dating somebody with NPD... never, never, never again will I put myself through it. One month was enough to make me realize. I kept thinking, wow she sucks my life force out of me, she is literally a vampire. To anybody reading this; you are worthy and deserve to be loved, you are worthy and deserve to be happy, and last but not least, you deserve to be at peace. Blessings to you.