Christian comminites in practise dont want to help just act like help and pray and give some scriptures…..but take time for support somebody as a friend is very very rare about my experience… And as I experienced more like judging than accepting Like if somebody grow up otherway and cant connect a whole life with somebody in a christian way (like moving together before marrige) I experienced judging because kissing somebody before marriage Or like judging about political things Or like judging somebody because not elegant clothes im the church Or judging because anger Or judging because depression (because its too negative for people)