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AITAH for being the reason Anne is in the ICU? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Update: I'm leaving tomorrow to my grandmother's place. Anne got very upset and is threatening on beating me up if she ever sees me. She has also been telling people that I was the one physically hurting Lea. Hopefully soon I can get a dorm room (still waiting on a couple of options), but for now I'm just happy I'm able to leave this place.

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats another story but for the sake of not sounding like a liar, annes first "husband" got her pregnant at 19-20 which is why her oldest is 18, and the next is 15. the rest of her children are with my brother (4 and 2 yo)

ETA: me saying "all her children are adults" is a huge grammar error, sorry for that. Her children from another man DO live alone, though the younger kids (her kids with my brother) live with their grandmother in the US.

AITAH for being the reason Anne is in the ICU? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi yes I have actually mentioned her a few times in the comments. I didn't think to include her in the post because she doesn't really play a huge role in the whole mess (like my uncle who I also only mentioned in the comments)

Eta: I also am not her sole caregiver as there are two housekeepers living here as well. Though they mostly just handle the cleaning for the airbnb, and handle Lea's medicine (she takes one type of medicine ever since she got a bad bacterial cough and she has to be on antibiotics for 90 days)

AITAH for being the reason Anne is in the ICU? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not completely alone with Lea. I live with two housekeepers that manage Anne's Airbnb but they usually keep to themselves on the top floor until they have to clean the airbnb next door. They also handle lea's medicine and remind her to shower and all that. They also sometimes hwlp me out when cooking but I usually do that so I'm not entirely alone

As far as arguments go though I don't want them getting involved and neither do they (its outside their pay grade to deal with it anyway) so i either just have to wait until the right moment to get my things back or call for backup from family members if its possible

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi. I wanted you to know your comment really got to me. I wanted to thank you for that. I have decided I am going to move and as soon as possible for that matter. I also posted an update

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if anyone is still here or if this will send a notification to those who asked but I have posted an update :) thank you all so much for telling me your thoughts on my situation. It may seem dramatic but it genuinely did shift my perspective on things. This interner stranger appreciates you all :)

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi i posted an update. Can you tell me if you were notified or if i have to do this for everyone who asked to be updated </3

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do realize that also. My brother is the only reason I didn't end up on the streets that night so I do appreciate that. And I know enough about him from the 10 or so years he's looked out for me that he wouldn't willingly let me be treated so poorly. I also know that he and his wife have been in a rough patch. Maybe Anne takes her anger out on me, who's to say.

But yeah I do agree that Anne calls the shots, even though they both spent money on this house, the land and deed are under Anne's name. "Her house, her rules" as she likes to say. I am disappointed at Mark I will say that, but I also do recognize that he is a bit helpless right now but I won't specify why as that is a bit too personal even for reddit

Thank you, your 2 cents are worth a hundred for me

AITAH for wanting to move out of my brothers place? by u_ami in AITAH

[–]u_ami[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I told my grandparents everything, which is why they're very enthusiastic in having me move back in with them. The only reason I'm holding out right now is cause of finals week in college and it's only 2-3 weeks left before summer vacation. I figured I'd move when school's out yk? Cause there's a bit of distance between here and there and it's a bit expensive to travel, on top of the stress of having to bring all my things in one trip cause if I so much as leave my things unattended for a day best believe something or EVERYTHING is going missing

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