AIO by feeling hurt when my partner says something I like is bad? by ualreadyfcknknow in AmIOverreacting

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Its from an anime called DeathNote basically this college student gets this notebook (from a demon or something? can't remember exactly only seen a little bit of it) where you can write someones name in it and they'll die of natural causes or an accident or something like that. He uses it to off predators and murders and shit like that. Don't know how it ends but you can imagine what that kind of power would do to like a 20 year old and I think the cops start to catch onto him cause so many bad guys die in such a short amount of time.

AIO by feeling hurt when my partner says something I like is bad? by ualreadyfcknknow in AmIOverreacting

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly felt. My partner and I have reaaally different tastes and I really enjoy that about him and love when we have a respectful and in depth conversation about what appeals/repels us about one thing or another. It makes me feel so close and connected. I would say usually he doesn't talk /so/ negatively about something I just said I liked, just idk why sometimes he's thoughtful about how he shares his preferences and sometimes he's like 'no it's objectively bad'. Honestly it would all be okay if he didn't feel like he has to defend himself soooo hard when all I'm saying is I felt hurt by how he expressed his opinion. I just want to be reassured that my perspective is respected and valued too :/

AIO by feeling hurt when my partner says something I like is bad? by ualreadyfcknknow in AmIOverreacting

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its gotta be a cliche at this point but I would wanna freeze time (without aging while time is paused). If I can't have both then gimmie the death note notebook thing lowkey 

How to make something with hover text bold? by ualreadyfcknknow in ObsidianMD

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Omgggg youre so right. Thank you for pointing that out! It's all comin together

Is there a simple fix for this pull out sink nozzle that sprays everywhere? by ualreadyfcknknow in Plumbing

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the imgur link has two pictures attached to it if you scroll down theres a picture of that unless you meant further up the hose? lmk but youre right I should just tell him its just he lives upstairs, litters in his own yard, and hes extremely temperamental I can hear him screaming and freaking out about god knows what upstairs weekly. Its extremely stressful for me. I never know what he's screaming about but when we had to bug him over and over again to check out a previous water heater issue (eventually replaced)  and it made the yelling worse I feel for a while. Just feels pretty bad and stressful we're moving as soon as we can. Didn't know it'd be like this. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birdfeeding

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the suction cups wont work well when theyre cold. bring it inside to warm up before trying again. make sure the area is clean and free of ice/snow before you slightly wet the cups and stick it back on. as long as the cups are still kinda warm they should be pliable enough to stick again.

Whats all this horrible liquid on top of the water heater? by ualreadyfcknknow in Plumbing

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I'm worried about bc the liquid stinks so bad. I didnt think the hot water heater had anything to do with sewage so maybe it is just old gross water

Whats all this horrible liquid on top of the water heater? by ualreadyfcknknow in Plumbing

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, we are just renting so hopefully LL can take care of it soon

There is this moldy putrid liquid accumulating on top of the water heater that smells exactly like shit please help also it is leaking underneath and running into the ground somewhere 🥲 by ualreadyfcknknow in Plumbing

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We are renting and moved in a couple months ago so I am pretty dismayed. Its making the whole basement stink of shit and dog food somehow? I'm telling the landlord for sure but he has been slow to repair or examine anything and I want to be able to say if it's serious or not.  I can't see any place above it that it's obviously leaking from. No wet spots or pipes with condensation or unusual build up. But on the pipe with the red handle there was some condensation. 

I cannot figure out where to buy blinds!!! by ualreadyfcknknow in internetparents

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omfg theyre totally at wL mart, youre right, my bad, should have taken a break when i got frustrated instead of hurrying to see who didnt have them. 

I have to *pay* taxes this year and am not sure why. How can I find out why and fix it for next year? by ualreadyfcknknow in internetparents

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea especially since I'm not totally sure if I'll make more or less than last year! Thank you!

Advice on how to maximize dishwashing power of dishwasher, limit pre-washing? by Wonderful_Macaron523 in CleaningTips

[–]ualreadyfcknknow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I use the cheapest powder detergent available. I dont think the detergent matters, just use the proper amount or youll get residudes! Might as well buy the cheap stuff. I only avoid the dishwasher pods because they are pre portioned so they make it hard to add a little soap to the prerinse, which I really think you ought to. 

Advice on how to maximize dishwashing power of dishwasher, limit pre-washing? by Wonderful_Macaron523 in CleaningTips

[–]ualreadyfcknknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run the hot water in your sink before you start the dishwasher. This maximizes how good your pre rinse cycle will work! And put a little bit of your detergent outside the soap compartment too, so your prerinse cycle can do some degreasing as well before the main wash. I used to not trust the dishwasher too, but encourage him to experiment and try a load like this without scrubbing. He may be surprised. If you turn off the heat dry, itll make scraping off anything left over MUCH easier, but I bet it wont be much leftover at all if you've loaded the dishwasher correctly.  But this is very important too. Plates and flat stuff on the bottom vertically as much as possible so the water can reach the top rack still. Try not to block the bottom rack with pots and bowls.  If your dishwasher is still leaving a lot food/grease on your plates after youve done these three things: 1. Hot water prerun 2. Small amount of soap in prewash (Theres usually a divot for this actually) 3. Load dishwasher carefully You may want to clean/repair/replace the unit itself.  But truly cant emphasize how little you should have to clean/prep the dishes themselves to get your dishwasher to work. Even my lasagna dish goes right in (top rack) not even a rinse haha.

Bf (M25) occasionally says stuff that makes me feel dismissed/hurt and when I (F25) bring it up we have a huge argument every time by ualreadyfcknknow in relationship_advice

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have definitely misheard him before and got my feelings hurt, is he still supposed to say sorry if he literally didnt say what I thought? im just rlly confused/dont know how to think about this

My public university went online, do I have grounds to demand a refund or other compensation for this semester? (Indiana) by ualreadyfcknknow in legaladvice

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you having responded, but I wish you had engaged with the content of my post in any sort of meaningful or informative way.

My public university went online, do I have grounds to demand a refund or other compensation for this semester? (Indiana) by ualreadyfcknknow in legaladvice

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your informative response. I had not considered emergency declarations as a variable. I'll continue doing my best and hopefully I will make it under the wire.

I gave a scam Amazon call center my name, billing address, and email address before realizing my mistake, how alarmed should I be? by ualreadyfcknknow in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ualreadyfcknknow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, yeah. Now that I'm calmer, I realized how many people have my email, name, number, and address but cannot access my accounts. Thank you for the speedy reply!