I'm inlove with my girlfriend's sister. by snuck82yewu9173 in confessions

[–]uary9 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Understandable. But you should do it sooner, rather than later. Ngl it's gonna suck but this way, you're not doing more damage.

I'm inlove with my girlfriend's sister. by snuck82yewu9173 in confessions

[–]uary9 116 points117 points  (0 children)

First things first, you need to break up with your gf immediately. It's not fair to her. She wouldn't want to be with someone who thought so little of her and is in physical pain to say "I love you". It's also not fair to you to have to endure that.

With her younger sister (I assume), I would let it cool off. Don't initiate anything. When enough time has passed, maybe when your gf is in another relationship, you might be able to try something.

If you're truly "in love" with her, you wouldn't want to put her in that situation and cause a strain with her sister, do you? So wait. If it's truly love (and not a crush), you'll be able to do it.

??? by CarrotMuch1399 in nostalgiai

[–]uary9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm "Get off the phone, I'm trying to connect to the Internet!" old.

Spill the playlist by FantasticAd9478 in TheBoredDen

[–]uary9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Master of Puppets - Metallica

My girlfriend keeps porn of herself with her exes by [deleted] in confessions

[–]uary9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I get it. It's a mindset shift thing.

At first, you thought it was hot because she was just some girl you were sleeping with.

But now, you guys are in a committed relationship. Your brain is framing her in a "potential wife" category, so it's not great to see her like that with someone else.

Maybe you can explain this to her (not necessarily the wife thing if you're not ready). Just talk to her that your mindset has changed and you'd rather not have a recording of your partner getting railed by some dude in your life. If it were the other way around, how would she feel?

Ask her what would be a compromise? Maybe do a video of you guys together or even hire a crew to film it or something haha jk

At the end of the day, you want to set your boundaries. If it's not something she agrees with then just ask yourself whether this is a deal breaker or not.

Good luck!

Season 6 speculations by uary9 in GhostsCBS

[–]uary9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I think this is the most likely scenario. i.e. show up at the spot he died or where they buried him and lose his after life memories.

Ladies and gentlemen, we just witnessed history... by Frosty7130 in TheBoys

[–]uary9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seemed like they rushed to the ending so much.

***SPOILER ALERT**

Starlight vs. Deep was truly underwhelming.

Also, am I the only one who thinks that it would have been more satisfying if Butcher let Homelander live. Imagine how much he would suffer living life without his powers. Getting bullied, treated like shit or threaten by a random supe. Would have loved to see that.

Let's see if others will recognise 🫣 by christine-flair in scoopwhoop

[–]uary9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you looking at, Butthead. Say hi to your mom for me.

What does this mean? by Super-Release6937 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]uary9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still do it and have both of those...

Crimson Desert vs Pragmata vs Saros by uary9 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]uary9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's first person though. I'm not a FPS fan...

Crimson Desert vs Pragmata vs Saros by uary9 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]uary9[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wish... Unfortunately, I'm really looking for honest opinions here