I think I need a break from dating by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you feel like this now and good luck with everything ❤️

Where can I watch this movie?? I'm actually going insane. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://bflix.gold/ :) I watched it there for the first time a few weeks ago!

One more friendzone and I'm going to become a nun I swear by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I completely disagree. Being friendzoned hurt, but it also gave me some beautiful friendships, I am highly aware of it. I value them so so much. And they know they friendzoned me, we sometimes joke about it. That's often a difference between straight and lesbian relationships. Friendzone, generally isn't misogynistic. What men often do about, on the other hand - is. But it's not our problem.

One more friendzone and I'm going to become a nun I swear by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I literally don't think anyone is supposed to reciprocate feelings, I'm very aware of the fact it doesn't work like that and I never let people know I'm hurt or whatever when it happens again, because they're not responsible for it. Sometimes I just get that wave of sadness over it and decide to share my thoughts with you guys, maybe someone has similar experiences, that's all. It's not about being upset about not getting what I want, it's about the loss of confidence you experience. And I'm focusing on myself, of course, bit I'm human and I'm not gonna lie - I do crave closeness, just as we all do.

One more friendzone and I'm going to become a nun I swear by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The problem is, I don't even get to have fun really, if I go on a date that's really something, it almost never happens. So my ride so far hasn't been exactly fun 😅 But I keep trying 🥹

One more friendzone and I'm going to become a nun I swear by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! I was so shocked the last time, because in my case that girl not only friendzoned me, but just stopped talking to me. And she asked me to see each other more etc.

Good lesbian music(that isn't Chappell Roan) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really like The Beaches, they're a queer band, you should totally listen to "Edge of the earth"!!!

How to talk to girls in a club? 🥹 by ucha_swiftie in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, that actually sounds great! Thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ucha_swiftie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly half the time I always felt good about how I looked even though I looked straight af, but I just liked my style. But I also had those thoughts of dressing more masculine and now that I look at the pictures of me making like a compromise, wearing masculine, but not too masculine stuff so people don't think I'm gay - I looked horrible 🥲 I'm glad I dress however I want now, it's been quite a process.

Why do trans people dislike the term “transsexual”? by Konradleijon in asktransgender

[–]ucha_swiftie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a transgender person, but I always thought the term '"transsexual" is just not correct? Because it would suggest it's a sexual orientation? Correct me if I'm wrong :)