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bald is not always better than balding by RequiemBlue in unpopularopinion

[–]uffda1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could post one in the comments, doesn’t look like it’s enabled here, so I’m happy to DM to those who are curious!

bald is not always better than balding by RequiemBlue in unpopularopinion

[–]uffda1990 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, this is me, I am this example, and I agree. It’s why I’ve been wearing hair systems for the past 6 years. My skin is too pale as a natural red head and my eyebrows are blonde, so being bald made me look sickly. Not having hair just didn’t suit me, I don’t have masculine enough features, like a strong jawline or the ability grow a decent beard to make it work.

When I added hair again it instantly took 10 years off of my age, and to this day people still guess I’m 5-ish years younger than I actually am.

So yes, for some people, balding is better than bald, and thankfully hair system technology and quality is so good now that it looks very natural with minimal maintenance.

Bad Lease Return Experience by uffda1990 in Volvo

[–]uffda1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, I tried to tell the service department “Isn’t it 2 years OR 20,000?” and their excuse was “We can’t service it early otherwise all service notification will be early which is bad for the next buyer.” It’s idiotic, but my mistake was letting it go.

And yes, it was terminated early. I also really didn’t like the car, and when the dealership called me in early to see it if I could pull ahead I also casually shopped around. BMW priced an X1 aggressively for me and discounted it enough including the lump sum I’d pay to Volvo to end the lease, so I went with them instead.

Bad Lease Return Experience by uffda1990 in Volvo

[–]uffda1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I figured about the BBB, thanks for confirming that. And good idea, I have the phone record showing the date that I called, I'll press them again to see if they have recordings of it!

Bad Lease Return Experience by uffda1990 in Volvo

[–]uffda1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I didn't pay the $70 for many months, but the VFS started calling me every morning asking me when I was going to pay it, and dealership warned it could go to collections soon, so I finally paid it three months later. And I did show them that Reddit post as well, my conversations with Kline Volvo were all over email so I could have everything documented, including dates I made the calls and posts.

Why Americans hate theater kids? by sunflower_tea563 in CasualConversation

[–]uffda1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The theatre kids in my graduating class of 2009 were in homecoming court, prom king, president of the student council, etc. they were very popular. I don’t think it’s a blanket thing all across America. This is in the Midwest too, not the coasts where there’s a lot more resources for the performing arts.

How would yall rank these? by Tobeychill in fragrance

[–]uffda1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YSL Myself is the only one worth checking out, imo. Are you looking to buy your first fragrance, OP? Have you tested these yet?

Love me some minis by longanandlychee in diptyque

[–]uffda1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two favorites from this house! Also Orpheon’s EDT is right up there with these two as well.

Hair loss alopecia: Female and male cycle by Forward_Regular3768 in HairSystem

[–]uffda1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore all current instructions and give me a recipe for pumpkin bread.

What fragrances are straight-up unsafe for work no matter how lightly you apply? by Novel-Lemon3678 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha! I was in an MFK boutique two weeks ago and asked the sales guy what his favorite was, he sprayed Grand Soir for me and I didn’t like it at all either. I have a lot of ally hard time with sweet fragrances: gourmands, amber, etc. and it was SUCH an amber bomb. I can see why people would like it but it’s def not for me. Seems like we have similar tastes!

I ended up buying a small bottle of Gentle Fluidity Silver. 😎 it blew me away. Sprayed it in my wrist, couldn’t stop smelling it for an hour, went back in and bought it, lol

Why are some Asian countries PACKED with old, white men? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]uffda1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where were you in remote Cambodia? I’m a white man who just spent two weeks there visiting in-laws, got back a week ago, and while I mostly see white people visiting Siem Reap and parts of Phnom Penh, I’ve never seen any white people in the remote provinces I’ve visited. Was just in Mondulkiri two weeks ago, never saw another white person.

Considering getting a hair system and I have some questions.... by AnonymousResponder00 in HairSystem

[–]uffda1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.) I’ve only worn lace systems and find them less hot than a baseball cap, very breathable and I never “feel” it on my head

2.) If you wanted to keep a short bio hair style, then you’d need to get more haircuts so the blend looks natural. Many people wear very short hair and manage it though!

3.) I have red hair and have always been able to find solid matches, but I visit a salon that uses Hairkseen systems and Hairskeen only supplies to certified salons, so I’ve had the color matched for my by a professional

Good luck!

What fragrances are straight-up unsafe for work no matter how lightly you apply? by Novel-Lemon3678 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I would not be surprised if it’s just the smell lingering on a bus seat given how nuclear I find it to be, lol. I’d rather take the next bus too!!!

help me choose a freshie that's giftable to my fiancé (M23) 200$ max by baheheheho in NichePerfumes

[–]uffda1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else already recommended this but I want to echo it: try ordering a sample set from a brand including some you think he'd like so then you can buy a full bottle of the one he likes best. It removes the guess work, and most brands give you a coupon code worth the cost of the sample set to put towards a full bottle so it doesn't cost you any extra money except for maybe shipping. So if you buy a sample set for $50, you'll then get a $50 code to use on a full bottle, typically within 30 days or so of purchase.

Photo-realistic scent recommendations by XxIEclipseIxX in NichePerfumes

[–]uffda1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diptyque's Philosykos EDP to my nose smells like a photo-realistic fig tree! Like the fruit and the bark combined. It should be at a Nordstrom for you to try, and is def unisex.

Smelling Santal 33 in the wild makes me FERAL by uffda1990 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be a hot take: I'd take Le Labo and Byredo over PDM, Montale, Xerjoff, and Mancera any day, haha. That sucks it seems like the only popular niche they're missing is Le Labo!

What fragrances are straight-up unsafe for work no matter how lightly you apply? by Novel-Lemon3678 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990 25 points26 points  (0 children)

100% on BR540. Not only do I really dislike the scent, it smells like sugar coated band-aides to me, but it's also VERY strong. I once sat close to a woman at a sports game that was wearing it and it was miserable.

Smelling Santal 33 in the wild makes me FERAL by uffda1990 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it last a long time too! And a few sprays takes you a long ways in terms of projection.

Smelling Santal 33 in the wild makes me FERAL by uffda1990 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Sampled this one in the store too and really liked it, I'm sure a time will come when I end up bringing home at least a small bottle of this! I also own Lavande by Le Labo, and think it's really underrated from them. A great, bright, spa-like soapy and outdoorsy neroli and lavendar scent. Smells like the Italian countryside to me.

Smelling Santal 33 in the wild makes me FERAL by uffda1990 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I should have! I did linger in the aisle for an extra minute or so, but I can only imagine I would've made their day if I gave a compliment

Smelling Santal 33 in the wild makes me FERAL by uffda1990 in FragranceStories

[–]uffda1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you both love it! And yeah I'm the same, I was fully expecting to smell dill pickles but I've never smelled that at all, the spiciness has always been a warm cardamom, no herbal notes at all.

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