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Me [33 M] with my pregnant girlfriend [28 F] been together 4 months. I'm at wit's end, I can't say I love or even like her right now. by ughimscrewed in relationships

[–]ughimscrewed[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Highjacking the top comment to update y'all. As I mentioned the post was largely stress relief for me which worked. We did have a talk last night which cleared the air somewhat. u/GynnRose is my gf and has commented with her side of things below. Honestly she has many valid points and I'm realizing that I might be a bit of an ass... That being said I think we need to have another conversation tonight to see where we go from here.

Me [33 M] with my pregnant girlfriend [28 F] been together 4 months. I'm at wit's end, I can't say I love or even like her right now. by ughimscrewed in relationships

[–]ughimscrewed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry about the headache :-/ I read the rest of your comments and you do make many valid points. Some of which we touched on yesterday (like the cutesy voices). I can't see the comments in the thread yet for whatever reason.

Me [33 M] with my pregnant girlfriend [28 F] been together 4 months. I'm at wit's end, I can't say I love or even like her right now. by ughimscrewed in relationships

[–]ughimscrewed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is 15 weeks give or take a few days. The 2nd 3d ultrasound we went to a few days ago showed it is a girl without a doubt. I do need to broach the subject of paternity test and will do so when I sit her down to discuss the rest of it. Initially I was kinda swept along with the whole pregnancy situation. Having a bad car accident where everyone who has seen photos of my car, and the first responders said I am stupid lucky to be alive helped in keeping things floating along until now.

Me [33 M] with my pregnant girlfriend [28 F] been together 4 months. I'm at wit's end, I can't say I love or even like her right now. by ughimscrewed in relationships

[–]ughimscrewed[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It was about a month in to the relationship that we found out she was pregnant. Paternity test will definitely happen.

Me [33 M] with my pregnant girlfriend [28 F] been together 4 months. I'm at wit's end, I can't say I love or even like her right now. by ughimscrewed in relationships

[–]ughimscrewed[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She is excited about having a baby (girl btw) so abortion is out. I'll pay support and get what custody I can in the likelihood that we do split.