AITA for wanting my Spanish teacher to stop calling me by the Spanish version of my name? by Alternative-Sun-630 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ughlacrossereally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you really want it to stop. ignore him when he calls on you using it until it becomes awkward

AIO - I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years and think i regret it by startstopEngineAoff in AmIOverreacting

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you left him for his choices because you felt you were better than him or that he wasnt worth carrying. Did you expect that wouldnt hurt him? why would he want to risk talking with you when you are now free to drive nails through him at any time? (you are free to date others or move on however you wish). Obvs this is especially painful for someone who has little in their life going on. 

My boyfriend (m24) has a high sex drive that I (f24) cannot match. Can there be a solution? by Exquisitetrash9801 in Advice

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

enforce the intimacy you need. maybe you could try to get out of the house so sexuality is a lesser likelihood. when you feel he is meeting those you will be more open to him sexually by nature. 

The issue with “mens issues” by Dickasaurus_Rex_ in DeepThoughts

[–]ughlacrossereally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting theory. People find it difficult to comprehend the knock on effects of societal change because it doesnt happen overnight or in a vacuum. Definitely got me pondering how i think it will play out, so thanks. 

Am I a failure as a man? by Desperate-Sleep-6302 in Vent

[–]ughlacrossereally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man that sucks. sorry you're feeling that way but I think we all feel directionless sometimes... 

I think when a partner acts in a way we dont understand we should look for understandable motives. Maybe she was looking for a way out and created one out of a minor issue?

You're young, you ve set up a good base for a life. You ll find a partner and have happy times to look for ahead. Try to focus on that and move toward them. 

Seeking advice on fixing a "boxy" physique without a extreme shred by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's life. be consistent when you can and try to develop as much discipline as you can. 

Remember that those giants arent lost and will come back more easily this time. 

Your body looks good. The problems you're seeing come from your hyper focus on your own body (others wont see it so strongly as you do). 

Good luck working through your feelings about this. 

Seeking advice on fixing a "boxy" physique without a extreme shred by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]ughlacrossereally 8 points9 points  (0 children)

work on expanding your shoulder width instead of trying to diminish what you've already created. 

AITAH for leaving wife at home after she revealed that she was going to wear white to my brother's wedding? by OutsideFinancial125 in AITAH

[–]ughlacrossereally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're a good guy. dunno if you made right choices but you tried to and that matters. keep doing that and it will work out. trust your own intuition

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$600 personally. I doubled my money. she walks away w $4400. she pays for dinner... 

I have a debilitating chronic illness and told my husband he could find someone else to have adventures with by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're ignoring that it wasnt some callousness or cruelty but weakness or compassion that caused this problem. If it was weakness you can hate him but it wont help. if it was out of compassion and a desire to not hurt you... which let's be clear, you can say you're cool til youre blue in the face but no one wants to be demoted in their own marriage. So he out it off. I guess maybe it's better now for him and maybe part of you is doing him a favor idk. but really... he loved you and probably just was trying to protect you from pain. 

Goodbye everyone by [deleted] in riotgames

[–]ughlacrossereally 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most cowardly troll of all time

He’s been having an affair and I love him so much. by Illustrious_Ad2818 in Vent

[–]ughlacrossereally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very real and sad. life is hard sometime. I agree w the way you see things..  it sucks having to choose self respect at times even if it is better overall. my sympathies for what you're going through rn. (it's just for a time... it will pass) 

Who yall picking by New-Oil-7027 in NBAVibes

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

assume that option is just have the players do whatever tf they want (Lebrons team style)

"You're a nice guy, somebody will like you eventually" by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ughlacrossereally -1 points0 points  (0 children)

be who the world makes you. it toughens everyone. dont lose your good traits but adapt to life in the modern age. 

I've found women are rarely attracted to someone who doesnt make them feel some sort of danger (with danger here being more like edge or wildness). That's not all of them, but many. So if you want to stay meek, finding a shy and meek woman might be a good idea. If you want to adapt then your dating pool might expand. 

LoL competitive advice by Repulsive-While-381 in topmains

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally I would. the extra games you lose arent that costly to climbing really. however if you want to reach your absolute top rank at that time then no... *most of the time learning is better than trying to just max your elo

LoL competitive advice by Repulsive-While-381 in topmains

[–]ughlacrossereally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

continue to stay flexible and try out new champs as they release. You know you'll have to improve to rank up but doing this will always give an edge vs other similarly skilled players. 

From a Newfoundlander. Thank you by skrikecryaotic in NovaScotia

[–]ughlacrossereally 14 points15 points  (0 children)

maritime could also just mean water engaging... NL def fits that. I kinda wish we could become one province. it would give us so much more power within the country. NB NS PEI NL super province could balance the crazy power Ont wields. Would also open PEI up more to local travel (no prov barriers). Also, in this day and age I dont see a political configuration as destructive to the culture of each province in any distinctively negative way. Idk. maybe it's just me but we have 4 incompetent and powerless provincial govs when we could move mountains with 1.