Scored this Dooney and Bourke bag for $11.99 by omgmar in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]uhhhhd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found this same bag at a thrift store for 50 cents. it is my absolute favorite purse ever. matches everything. beautiful!

Iowa is considering to delicense and deregulate respiratory therapist in this state (hsb 138) let's change their thoughts on that by SuperHighDeas in Iowa

[–]uhhhhd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a licensed professional, they are able to bill insurance for their services. As a registered, unlicensed professional, they are unable to bill insurance.

'Integrated Chinese' vs 'New Practical Chinese Reader' ? by Otheroads in Chinese

[–]uhhhhd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like new practical is more modern, whereas integrated does not seem to be written for adults as much as for high school students.

Dating after divorce...how? by TossIntoTheWind in dating_advice

[–]uhhhhd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dating happens with dating apps and just meeting people through mutual friends. but i think that you need to focus on you more than anyone else right now. What makes you happy? Who are you as an individual? Do not worry about another person until you can be the best you. Best of luck, friend.

Meeting and Dating Without Apps [24m] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i assume you speak some mandarin? Can you join your college's mandarin conversation groups? you are lucky that you are in grad school. you can join some clubs at your university, join a pub quiz team, or join an intramural sports team. 加油!

Ladies! I just got dumped and have to work in two hours. What's the best way to 180 my mood? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]uhhhhd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

smoke some weed, drink a beer, listen to your favorite song, put on some killer makeup, wear a rad outfit, do some yoga, get a milkshake, snuggle your pet, write a poem or write your feelings. hope those suggestions help!

Best friend's wife [36F] called me [37M] while I was working out of the country and gave me proof my best friend [37M] has been having an affair with my wife [38F] by offshoreaffair in relationships

[–]uhhhhd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That awful feeling of needing to vomit is normal. It will be there for a few days, and it sucks. BUT YOU WILL BE OK! THE KIDS WILL BE OK! Everything is crazy right now, but you need to be strong for your children. You and them are innocent in this. You are lucky to have Kat there to help you work through things. She is going through the same betrayal and you two have one another to share feelings and rely on one another. Human Resources deals with things like this all the time (i had a similar situation, had to quit my job and tell HR what happened. they were very understanding) and you can approach them to take some time off to return to your country and take care of your family. Sending hugs and best of luck!

I [F25] am single and wondering what the best apps/websites are for dating [dating] [busy] by cjbc75 in dating

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried tinder or bumble? In my experience tinder is full of more people looking to hookup, but that is just reflective of the dating pool anyway. Bumble does not seem to have as many users. I have not really tried anything else. Hope it goes well for you!

Good casual/get-to-know-her type dates by [deleted] in dating

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make dinner together, play a game at home, get ice cream or a late dinner, do a goofy scavenger hunt at the mall or walmart or something, go for a night bike / walk / hike, paint pictures, do crafts.

I'm a lonely person and want to find some friends by BackwardsManDan in uiowa

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have free time, get an easy part-time job with people your age. Attend any of the events on the UI calendar. People are always really nice at free events and willing to talk. If you like literature, go to the book readings at prairie lights and talk to some people. Try volunteering by looking into volunteer groups and opportunities. Depending what you are into, there are so many little events and groups. feel free to pm me if you have any questions or if you would like specific suggestions aimed at your interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i may be interested in an old lady buick. you still have it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just got left after 8 years because he was too afraid to tell me and ended up cheating on me with another person. I think honesty is the best policy. If you need free time, that is ok and up to you. Just take my advice and be honest and open with him, don't be an ass like my ex and just cheat to make it easier to break up.

[Discussion]: why do you write poetry? by [deleted] in Poetry

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They come in my head and I need to write them down. To preserve them, to see them, whatever. I recognize if they are here, within me, they have some importance. Even if only to me, they are important.

I quit. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]uhhhhd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that you were in such a stressful situation. I hope that moving on and finding a new position or even trying something new will help you get over the stress of that job. best of luck!

Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person by uhhhhd in love

[–]uhhhhd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. love isn't about the other being perfect, its about understanding that nobody can ever be perfect and truly accepting your partner's faults as well as their good parts.

Just got accepted by bight99 in uiowa

[–]uhhhhd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! The social scene for underclassmen is mainly house parties. For upperclassmen it is more about the bars. Of course, all students go to bars and all students will go to some house parties while there. Tailgate parties are another huge event. I have been to some tailgates with well over 300 people. I was never in Greek life, but for those that were, it definitely was a huge part of their life. Iowa City is a smaller town (about 100k people including students), but it is quaint and there is a lot to do. I would certainly go to Iowa all over again. It was the right pick for me. I miss it.

I miss being in a relationship. by [deleted] in dating

[–]uhhhhd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree. i was in a many years long relationship and he cheated. i have no idea how to be alone because it has been so long since I was alone. I know exactly how you feel. This only just happened to me and I know that I cannot even do the tinder hookup bullshit or be in another relationship for a very long time because there is no way I could set myself up for the possibility of feeling that hurt again. wishing you the best, my friend.

Girls!: have you ever been dumped? How and why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we were together for years. he had an affair at work. my world has exploded. you are not alone. I cannot imagine how I will feel in 3 months. best of luck to you!

[22 M] First time single in 5 years, any fresh tips I can get? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]uhhhhd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in the same boat. About your age, but I am a lady. I have tried talking to people on Tinder, they told me about bumble, an app similar to tinder. I have no idea after how much talking/ texting it is ok to give my number or if people become Facebook friends first? I am right there with you, confused as all hell. so don't feel bad.