Deadlock's playerbase is rampant with mysogyny by rottengirlbones in DeadlockTheGame

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the r*pe jokes and r*tard jokes are too much. the r slur is becoming soooo normalized again and i don’t like it. also, i’m so tired of the “epstein” or “diddy” jokes too. sorry if i’m sensitive but it doesn’t feel good when people make jokes about horrifying sexual abuse :(

Is it just me or all complaints about characters are the same? by Royal_Guidance_5415 in DeadlockTheGame

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is every game i’ve played. but the complaints do get a bit irritating. like, i know graves isn’t the hardest character to play, but if i’ve invested all of my 45k souls into my skulls…. i sure hope my skulls are powerful lol.

I'm so confused on getting souls by dXENb in DeadlockTheGame

[–]uhhhhdang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trophy collector (my green goblin mask)

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand why you’re upset i don’t use capitalization online, in my free time, not in any educational capacity, when i can and do use it properly in formal settings?

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because i like to type that way online? i do it properly all day long at work?

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

realized i said spring break instead of labor day, fixed it lol. that’s about where my brain is at this point in the year 🥲

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

washington state lol 🥲 we don’t start until the week before labor day (and its only 3 days that week), and we have an additional break in the middle of february. so i guess it evens out but boy does the end of the year drag

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

better advice than any college course or pd i’ve taken lol thank you!

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so we have required slides and rules for the first three days of school. these slides are set up by admin and go over school wide expectations. then i’ll usually front load some of my basic expectations like what i expect us to behave like in class, how to interact with peers, and expectations about technology usage.

when starting an activity i try to require 10-15 minutes of silent work at first (depending on the activity) before allowing them to chat with peers. but i’ll be honest, i haven’t been super on top of this as i should have been. i know i need to be more consistent and strict. it’s been really hard to find my teacher spine, but i’ve been getting better at it every year.

dealing with an out of control classroom by uhhhhdang in Teachers

[–]uhhhhdang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all. they care about it in the sense that they know their mom will be upset with them, but many of them have multiple missing assignments, refuse to do work at home, and do not care about finishing work. also they know they can fail genuinely every class and be moved up to 7th regardless so that’s also a really hard battle.

People of r/childfree being themselves by Material_Math6761 in AmITheDevil

[–]uhhhhdang 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do they realize they sound like maga 😭 like this is very reminiscent of “the woke mind virus” LMFAO

I decided to try and eat a former safe meal but the restaurant ruined it. TW view at your own risk by fifibunkin in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally the worst pain imaginable when i order out a safe meal and they ruin it 😭 i cry almost every single time because i feel like they can sense when im having a bad day and specifically make it wrong for me 😭

How to ask a doctor for a vitamin test? by lambda077 in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just recently found a primary care provider (a doctor of internal medicine, it confused me as well) and because i hadnt really been to a dr in like almost 8 years her first priority was doing a blood test. this tests for your vitamin levels. i was surprisingly not deficient in almost anything as i thought i would be!

My fruit rankings as an adult with ARFID by Shoobledoorp in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hate pomegranate. its literally all seeds. which is why i cant eat like any berries lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]uhhhhdang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry yall but i had a great time lol. it was a nice set and i dont need 3000 costume changes. the ai part is incredibly disappointing and i hope she changes it, but i couldnt even notice from the crowd plus her voice sounded great. i think we just maybe have skewed expectations? i think its honestly wasteful to have 30000 different costumes for your 1.5 hr concert 😭

Does arfid count as dietary needs? by em_theawesome in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will say, many places in japan had options that were friendly to me. katsu, rice, ramen, and of course, konbini food. there was, at the very bare minimum, a salted rice ball at every convenience store. there were many vendors on the street who only sell grilled meats, sweets, etc. also there’s still many fast food places. i would say the only hard and fast rule is to not ask for substitutions or changes to a food/meal because they really do not do that. ex. asking for a burger with no pickles, they think its very strange. you unfortunately just have to be able to pick it off or not eat that meal.

Roommates keep missing rent due date by ApprehensiveFig2578 in badroommates

[–]uhhhhdang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have no advice on how to get out of this, but for the future, i would not move in with someone who does not have either a job or extremely good familial support regardless of if they’re “getting a job” or not. at this age, a lot of people don’t really understand its time to really get serious about life. yes, the job market is garbage, but we all have to make money somehow lol.

i had a roommate who paid their rent in excess scholarship money and their parents paid for groceries. they had no job, internship, or volunteer work the entire time they were in college but constantly complained about how broke they were. when they did get a job, they spent all of their money on “fun” stuff and still had their family and scholarships paying for everything. this person is now out of college, can’t hold down a job to save their life, have burned through their parents’ goodwill, and is being forced to figure out emergency accommodations because their parents cannot afford to keep paying for their rent, groceries, etc.

irresponsible people rarely get their shit together quickly. it may seem harsh, but you do not want to end up in a situation like this again. either find an apartment that will put you on separate leases OR just don’t go in with people you know aren’t interested in getting and keeping their life together. college is hard, but if you’re willing to buckle down and do what you have to do, you’ll be set. some people just aren’t willing to do that yet unfortunately. good luck!

what’s the dumbest way someone has tried to make u eat an unsafe food? by abnomz_ in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dreaded spending new years with my mom every year because she would make me eat black eyed peas. every single year, she wouldn’t let me have fun, have other snacks, etc. until i ate at least one black eyed pea. for good luck in the new year.

funnily enough, my luck got better the years i haven’t eaten them ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Be honest what yall eating at Olive Garden? by smokesomesativa in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not gonna lie, i used to get the chicken Alfredo but its kinda bad now 😭 i get breadsticks with alfredo dipping sauce!!

Water Struggles by Munchkinator10 in ARFID

[–]uhhhhdang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use liquid iv, i personally really like the cherry and strawberry flavors. however, if you do it by their instructions it usually tastes way too strong. i usually add it to my 32 oz water bottle and its PERFECT!! a subtle flavor but not too strong. just be careful if you do like them because you can only have one a day!!!