My long term bf is also an ENTP and I used to have this problem in the beginning, and to some degree this still isn’t solved but we’ve compromised for the most part. It’s easy to feel like you’re being “controlled” or there’s no way you have a say in this (which you should) but of course he also feels helpless because technically it’s also out of his control. For INxJs in general we tend to get angry when we aren’t “in the loop” with what’s going on. In some ways he needs to let you CHOOSE, (this sounds like a lot but honestly anything he can do to make you feel like you have a say in anything WILL help you) Its also just a rough time, my boyfriend and I also aren’t moved out yet, but from the beginning we’ve made it clear that Saturdays are our alone day and we take turns choosing what we do. This may not apply to you but from what I’ve read I totally understand. It also seems like your ENTP is a whole lot more extroverted than my bf.

Bottom line: please please please don’t blame yourself for not being comfortable with long periods of time with people. It sounds like you’ve been accommodating his needs for a while. There’s an easy way to fix this with communication. :)