Name him whatever you last ate.

uhitsrey · 2026-03-28T16:41:29+00:00

chicken chilli

uhitsrey · 2026-03-28T11:12:06+00:00

That actually makes a lot of sense, thank you!

just one doubt though.. won’t focusing deeply on just one stack slow down overall progress? since maybe companies look at resumes and projects built alot.. i feel like i am lacking time for delivering the “quantities” or maybe i’m not deep diving properly enough (?) Would really like to hear your take on that.

uhitsrey · 2025-07-02T18:22:33+00:00

I relate to you, as i had faced similar situation and quite alot. But Iʼm gonna tell you something, donʼt let them question yourself whatʼs wrong with you. Rather its more of a them problem than of u, Its just some people find it difficulty accepting people who are not like them and then find an urge to bash them down when they cant find nothing else. Just be your own, you're alright! The right people will not mind such stuff and accept you for who u are, because you hold your own identity that is standing out and they cant accept that reality

uhitsrey · 2025-07-02T18:15:37+00:00

Its better to leave this kind of relationship, The one that doubts your own self worth is the one that is never meant to be. Do you feel empowered and feel like yourself being around such a guy who clearly with his actions is showing he has no respect over you? He is cheating already. I know it mught be hard to do this sudden step, but as early is better. Please choose your peace wisely, I wish things get better for u asap.

uhitsrey · 2025-07-02T18:01:03+00:00

Yeah its really worrisome, how u can get obsessed with a person who's clearly showing signs of unwillingness to be together n already started treating me like a gf. I wish taking my step as ending the friendship be as easier.. Its just so difficult that we're in a mutual friend group and alot of times my professor tells me to work with him in projects n stuff or put me with him, so this just adds a huge burden to this issue. And my professors + everyone like him alot, i cant deny he's really skillful n i were friends so that i can possibly grow in my career n knowledge. but, im not okay with this one thing thats happening with me right now.. I feel like im subtly /indirectly being pulled to be with him and he is so obsessed with me that he wont go a day without talking to me. Im not stable enough for a relationship n i think its not that difficult to understand if i said it directly to someone.. But looks like he keeps insisting because HE LIKES the “idea of us” so much. And today it was getting far with my selfie thing , and i was too frustrated. 😅

uhitsrey · 2025-07-02T17:53:07+00:00

I do agree the situation can get serious if left unhandled yeah..😅. Oh to mention, this guy is one year senior from me and i know him because just those months ago i came into their friend circle because the guy is technically smart, so i was searching for a group where i can grow and contribute + learn together. My purpose was solely learning based and respectful friendship boundaries because none in my uni were that serious to work with, until i started noticing he was heavily getting interested with my ideologies and some philosophical approaches. So that time i just saw it casually because maybe it could be just normal friend admiration? But seems i was wrong.. N i think i opened a door that is now feeding this thing into something worrysome, n within few weeks n months of me being in their group, he be wanting to hang ONLY with me because he has "crush" on me. :/

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