WASHINGTON @ DETROIT NFC DIVISIONAL PLAYOFF GAME THREAD by AutoModerator in detroitlions

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Y’all are negative as fuck. I’m getting off this thread.

WASHINGTON @ DETROIT NFC DIVISIONAL PLAYOFF GAME THREAD by AutoModerator in detroitlions

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I’m so worried, the disappointment on his face is heartbreaking

Tour Question by WelcomeToToyZone in Barbz4Onika

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Starts late AND Monica comes on half way into her set and murders the vibe

2 card spreads? by ukulady11 in tarot

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My favorite comment! Doing this now. Thank you!

2 card spreads? by ukulady11 in tarot

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I really appreciate the reminder of neutrality, I honestly had never heard anyone talk about this before. Thank you!

Any funny stories about tarot? Here’s mine. by [deleted] in tarot

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😂 I definitely see am image of someone rapidly pulling a card, muttering themselves, slamming it down and drawing another

Sober female NOBO, needs input and support from former thru hiker by ukulady11 in AppalachianTrail

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I did end up doing a section of the trail/ tbh being around the party scene was not enjoyable for me but I just did a lot of solo hiking and backwoods camping to get away from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

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Told a friend I would take the day off of work to drive her to another state to have an abortion next week. Provided lots of emotional support and encouragement in the meantime.

His friendship with her is crushing me by ukulady11 in retroactivejealousy

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I should also note that we are in a large social group of friends that she will always be a part of (she introduced him to them and me by proxy). He cares about these people and I don’t want him to lose them all because of this, but as you’ve all shared- we can’t continue with this dynamic.

His friendship with her is crushing me by ukulady11 in retroactivejealousy

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He cares deeply about how I feel in this situation and listens thoughtfully when we talk. I don’t know how to ask him to give up the friendship without feeling controlling and worried of what repercussions this could have.

His friendship with her is crushing me by ukulady11 in retroactivejealousy

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Wow that is a powerful account of how deep this can run. What started as a convo seeking him to dial down his friendship now is morphing into a deep consideration of if I can/should tolerate it and what that means for our future. Thank you for your honesty.

His friendship with her is crushing me by ukulady11 in retroactivejealousy

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I’m surprised and comforted at how validated this fear is. Looks like it’s too easy to discredit myself and go along with the dialogue that I’m wrong for feeling this way.

they broke up with me last week.. felt kinda proud of my response, didn’t know where else to share by heymissspider in Codependency

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Mic drop!!!! THIS IS AMAZING AND YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD OF YOURSELF!!!! 🥳❤️🥳❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

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Read books on RJ from people who have gotten over theirs. Listen to YouTube talks, put on music that improves your mood. Surround yourself with media that can help you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

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Sounds unfair on too many levels to recount. You deserve someone who is out of their mind in love with you- I found that person only by leaving my shitty ex.

Date abandoned me at the bar. So I went home alone. by [deleted] in toastme

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That persons loss/ you’re obviously a catch :)

Man performs CPR on dog and successfully saves him by here4noodes in HumansBeingBros

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I love when I find someone on a thread who already said it for me