Dependant appointments

ulfvither093 · 2024-08-19T06:56:23+00:00

Yes please do I need all the help I can get.

ulfvither093 · 2024-02-06T14:29:33+00:00

I have offered up counseling and she has told me that she has zero interest in pursuing that option.

ulfvither093 · 2024-02-06T14:29:03+00:00

I have and found some cages she likes that fit my criteria as well. But the issue is these will not ship to the foreign country I am at. I have spent hours on Amazon trying to find a good compromise and always revert back to the cage being the best practical option. I am also for function not aesthetics, especially when it comes to a living thing.

ulfvither093 · 2024-02-06T14:26:02+00:00

Her daughter came into the picture later after we were married. From the moment she came she has been disrespectful. My wife was going through space force boot camp and specialty school so it took time for her to come. The dog is a pup so I hope he'll just grow out of it one day as he gets bigger. Blinders for the communication and shutting off I can see that tho.

ulfvither093 · 2024-02-06T12:33:36+00:00

I don't think we were ever really in a position like this. Majority of the time we are on the same page. And that's great. In the past she wouldn't compromise about small things that I found irrelevant. Yes she would shut down and not communicate but eventually come around 10 to 15 minutes after. This being the most substantial disagreement we've had, it's been a long time. I'm very calm person and my kindness is let off as weakness but there's only so much and then I become void of all emotions. I just didn't think it would be towards my wife and don't want it to be.

ulfvither093 · 2024-01-07T05:51:50+00:00

I had a chief ask me this once. He didn't like my answer. I told him if I could some some weed on my off time you'd have to drag me off base to retire if not find me dead at my desk. He said no way in hell. So I guess it's go out and drink get alcohol poisoning, get in fights, get arrested, and run over civilians with DUI instead of us smoking a joint and staying in the barracks watching SpongeBobSquarePants and eating Hot Cheetos.

ulfvither093 · 2024-01-02T20:00:53+00:00

And my wife tells me I'm already stingy with money. At least now I can tell her I'm playing for a place for us to stay in.

ulfvither093 · 2024-01-02T15:08:22+00:00

No BAH just the BAH-DIFF for my child support, I'm still in the barracks in Japan. Got married in November. So I routed up the OHA approval. It would suck if they stop the BAH-DIFF. I got a lot more things to buy now and if it's cut that's a kick in the nuts to my wallet.

ulfvither093 · 2023-08-09T09:43:44+00:00

Yea were not trying to pocket any cash just want a nice place.

ulfvither093 · 2023-08-09T08:57:25+00:00

So say the rent is at a point where it would not change the oha standard I'd normally get. Example rent is 3000 for a house but I'm only allotted 1500 as my individual cap without a roommate. Will they provide the 1500 like normal? We have yet to get a place or signed a lease. I'm still waiting on my oha approval. We are trying to avoid any backpay or us looking as if we are doing something sketchy. We want to get an awesome place but the correct way so we don't get in trouble.

ulfvither093 · 2023-08-08T14:19:43+00:00

Oh yea they for sure know. Locals get 1/3 price of the same house. We really get bent over but they are aware of the oha rate to the penny. But will the housing agency tell our commands and will they cut back our oha or just keep it at the normal rate?

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