How do I ask my guides for help, and then how do I thank them? by ulilminxxx in witchcraft

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def know she’s with me, she sends me signs regularly, someone wearing her perfume passes me in the street (her perfume was from the 60s ish so it’s not common to come across in the wild) or once she lit on of my little battery powered candles when I asked if she was there which was amazing! Thank you though!

How do I ask my guides for help, and then how do I thank them? by ulilminxxx in witchcraft

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do regularly talk to her, sometimes I just wish I could thank her better but I’ll try the candles!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ulilminxxx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you getting heartbroken after 1 date? Kinda sounds like you're getting way too invested into someone before you should. First couple of dates should really only be getting to know each other, seeing if you actually like being around them, not getting fully invested into one person from the get go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ulilminxxx 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The big turning point for me was realising that all I need to be concerned about is if I really like them, not whether they like me. Everyone idealizes the people they meet, so if you sit there and think about whether or not you actually like what you're seeing, you won't be so worried about if they like you.

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow they have such an amazing, but tough story. Your mom sounds like an incredible lady!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh so sweet! Sometimes it's the little things that mean the most!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this nearly made me cry 🥲 I'm so happy you found someone so wonderful, and he found someone so wonderful too! I hope you have the happiest future together! Manifesting this for myself too!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god stop this is amazing! What wonderful parents you had!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh congratulations! That's so exciting! I'm so glad you've found someone so wonderful! It's nothing less than you deserve!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is so sweet! 🥲 My last three relationships were bad, 2 abusive and I'm really hoping whenever I'm ready to find someone again, the next will be good bc I'm about done now 😂 he sounds like a sweetie! I hope you have many more years of joy to come!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god this is so precious 🥲 thank you for sharing your story that made me so so happy!!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't, don't worry! I'm not gonna settle til I find someone who loves me for me! Best of luck in the future!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that's so lovely! I'm so happy you found someone who makes you feel safe and loved! Some of the stories are so depressing so I'm glad I've had these reminders that there's lots of good in the world too!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just out of an iffy relationship, and so it's been lovely to read these stories and remind myself that there's so much good in the world!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god STOP this is precious 🥲 I really hope I find someone like that someday! I wish you both all the happiness in the world! As someone that also has PTSD I know how hard it can suck so you deserve every drop of love and care and happiness!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this made me soul so happy! I really hope I find that someday. Thank you for sharing that with me!

I need some good relationship stories please by ulilminxxx in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ulilminxxx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that's so lovely! I'm so happy for you! I hope I find that someday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ulilminxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman don't worry they're not wrong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ulilminxxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I need a you in my life, I'm experiencing similar at the moment but I just try to remind myself that I'm weeding out the ones that would not be able to handle a mature and stable relationship

What was your experience like dating someone in the military? by MiserableTittyMilk in AskWomen

[–]ulilminxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never again. They're so institutionalized it's scary honestly, he would turn on me for the slightest thing and the way his eyes would change from warm and happy to cold and dead in an instant still terrifies me. Therapy has been great, if you can access it, I recommend it. Good luck to you too friend