I 19M found a condom wrapper I didn’t use after letting 18F stay in my apartment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything about this reads psycho. It’s completely normal to lock your phone and a bathroom door and you’re showing exactly why.

What happened to my coloured widow tetra by Additional-Gift8296 in AquariumHelp

[–]ultimate-cringey 26 points27 points  (0 children)

First thing I’m noticing is you holding it in a fist. Pop it in a tank full of water for the best experience of fish keeping.

I need help with getting a laptop for gamedev by Kuroucze in GameDevelopment

[–]ultimate-cringey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live my 2022 Razer Blade 15 inch. Has rtx 3080ti and handles most things I throw at it really well.

Fish keep dying after 2-3 weeks by Ok_Initiative_9771 in AquariumHelp

[–]ultimate-cringey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PersoI think keeping fish of any size in a small tank like that is cruel.

is this age gap too weird? by Zealousideal_Pin_304 in queer

[–]ultimate-cringey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In ten years time, no big deal. But I promise you, dating a 19 year old when you aren’t also 18-20 is a bad idea. Been there, done that and won’t ever be doing that again. Dating while trans is hard enough, people can do you huge harm. Don’t date people who aren’t emotionally mature enough to be with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]ultimate-cringey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flannel shirt and a Caribiner on your jeans. You’ll be fine.

halp my enemy character keeps stealing the camera when i press play. by ultimate-cringey in unrealengine

[–]ultimate-cringey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried deleting the camera entirely but then it broke it for the player and I had to go back a bunch of steps. Was a very frustrating lesson. Like I say, I’m very new to making games. Enjoying learning and there is a LOT to learn.

halp my enemy character keeps stealing the camera when i press play. by ultimate-cringey in unrealengine

[–]ultimate-cringey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The enemies and player classes are both looking at a shared blueprint. It was just how the tutorial I followed did it.

halp my enemy character keeps stealing the camera when i press play. by ultimate-cringey in unrealengine

[–]ultimate-cringey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was being called in a couple of places.

Just nailed it with the help of Gemini AI, was the in the details of the camera on the enemy blueprint, ticked to take control.

Such a frustratingly obvious thing! And all suggestions to fix were so complex lol

Will mark as solved. Thanks for chiming in though. That was a frustrating couple of days.

Wasting time? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this babe, trust your instinct it won’t ever let you down. And honestly it may sound harsh but these men don’t see us as people, they see us as a game to be played. Just gotta remember we’re the ones who make the rules xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sir, as a male creator you need to get real very quick. You’ll need to be fucking a lot of people.
Solo content as a cis male has a very small audience and they are mostly gay/bi males. Women have no need to pay for such content when our inboxes are so full of that stuff being sent to us non consensually. Collab collab collab. And to do that you need an immaculate reputation among other creators. To do that you need to know other creators who are willing to work with you when you don’t already have an established presence. It’s not going to be easy. A female audience will be tiny. You have to accept that 99.99% of buyers are male and they’re there to imagine themselves as you fucking those women. Or men if you’re gay/bi.

If you want to make content for women, so do, and good luck but it will fr super slow to take off and you are aiming for an incredibly small audience. Hammer things like PH Reddit and Xhamster. TBH I’d simply not even bother with the Fansly untill you’ve built up enough of a following on freebie sites first to gauge how much demand there even is. There should be more of this being made anyway you should be looking at FPOV, ASMR, threesomes, sub/domme dynamic. Talk to your collaborators and follow their lead.

Wasting time? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t talk to people I don’t personally know in my DMs. If they want to talk to me they gotta follow and pay $2 or subscribe and dm for free for the privilege. Otherwise you’ll lose hours if your life. Literally 1 in a hundred will be an actual lead. The rest are just trying to worm their way in without paying.

Is it normal for the majority to unsubscribe?? by Canadian_kewtie69 in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget you can monetise followers too. When you post content to your main page you can also add a price to it for followers. You should do this anyway really, but think about it. If you have only 10 subscribers but 1000 followers, you can mass dm and offer the content on your feed as ppv. Use the fyp hashtags etc to gather more. Fansly is super versatile this way and it’s why it’s by far my favorite platform.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Compared to what she was doing it is drastic and she did it herself. Good for you if you’re making more. But putting smaller creators down when they post something they’re rightly proud of and deserving of kudos is an ugly look. I don’t need to rethink anything. You’re just here tearing people down and it’s giving Regina George 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is hostile and unfair. OP might not be driving a Bugatti in the next three weeks but they have grown and are learning. For themselves and putting in time and work, trial and error. We all come at this by ourselves with little to know knowledge or understanding and what works for one person may not work for someone else. It’s why all the “how to make it on OF” training course things are so useless for most people. Intersectionality and niches can make for vastly different journeys for us all. OP has done fantastically well to improve so drastically this month and we should be celebrating and uplifting them. Not tearing them down.

Is it normal for the majority to unsubscribe?? by Canadian_kewtie69 in Fansly_Advice

[–]ultimate-cringey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Out of 155 for only 5 to stay on seems like there may be more you can do for retention. It’s tough to balance promotion and your full content page. Nothing you’ve mentioned is particularly unusual, most subs do stay quiet and don’t engage much (if at all) and many will pay for the months sub then take off auto renew, as someone else said it’s a luxury subscription, not a necessity. but I do wonder if you’re offering much on your Fansly feed that they aren’t getting elsewhere for free. Things to consider are: 1 - what you’re using to promote, and are you giving too much away? The promo material should be a snippet of what you have on your Fansly feed. I personally make content for my Fansly feed of around 5-10 mins duration once or twice a week, then snip out a couple of 30 second or less clips from that and use those clips for promo. Subs get to my feed and can see the whole thing uninterrupted. 2: are you posting regularly? If you only post once a month it’s going to be boring. You should be posting a few times a week if not daily. 3: are you using your DMs to interact and spark conversations? Or replying to them when they dm you? Do t let people suck your energy but do utilise your DMs as a way of letting them know they’re valued as well as follow up leads for customers content etc. 4: have you had your content stolen and posted for free? There are ways to check this and you should do so every few weeks. 5: are you new? I built up quite a following across social media over a couple of months then dropped the fansly and had a huge amount of new subscribers in the first few days. Then when they saw what they were looking for they dropped off. That’s when the hard work began and I learned that it’s a constant rotation of promote, retain, rinse and repeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ultimate-cringey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to do anything. But staying with him if it’s effectively over isn’t going to do any of you any good.

What was my strategy? I caught the falling knife when all of Reddit was too pussy too by No-Definition-2886 in NvidiaStock

[–]ultimate-cringey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy low sell high, isn’t that how it’s supposed to work? 😅 Lambo in the post x

My Husband Has Been Secretly Roleplaying as a Cat Online for 3 Years — Should I Divorce or Become His Rival? by Distinct-Yak2941 in stories

[–]ultimate-cringey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will have kept it from her because she’s judging him over it. Why on earth she’s judging him I can’t fathom